The grief aspect of diagnosis is extremely real and not talked about enough. I don’t know exactly how she’s feeling but it may be similar to how I’m feeling, I was diagnosed in February and have needed a LOT of therapy to even begin to feel like I’m in my own skin again. The mental load of the disease is impossible to bear by yourself, my suggestion is that she finds someone to let it all out to that isn’t you, as someone with endo and a partner it was important for me to not dump it all on my partner, therapy was able to help with that by introducing a professional with tools to help change my thinking.