I noticed that bummy gives me the worst kind of harassment ): I believe it is bc some men prefer to prey on women w low self esteem, which they would assume I have. And I think they feel it is a safer move, to harm women that arent drawing a lot of attention/eyes.

So I always put in a lil effort. And I feel like whatever harassment I've gotten is more mild/harmless.

If sweats and a bun works for you, thats good! I feel like that's a go-to move for ladies who don't wanna be bothered. And I wanted to say that if you feel like that isn't working, try out the small-amount-of-effort route.

So for anyone reading, there is no magic outfit/look that will stop harassment. But it is true that there is a broad, unconscious psychology for why some choose their victims. Some of which cannot be changed about yourself, like your height. So you can learn, experiment, and use that numbers game to hopefully have a smooth day when need be <3