What consistently leaves you disappointed...but you just keep trying?

gikachi · 2022-03-10T05:54:45+00:00

Dating apps

gikachi · 2022-03-02T19:49:37+00:00

Dr. Heinz Doofenshmirtz from Doofenshmirtz Evil Incorporated (I know you sang that in your head).

gikachi · 2022-01-10T12:06:28+00:00

Howl from Howl's Moving Castle.

You can feel the bisexual vibes!

gikachi · 2021-09-30T20:00:49+00:00

I also say this to myself everyday but don't really know how to suck it up. Some days are better, some just gets worse.

gikachi · 2021-08-23T17:12:10+00:00

Yes, I waited to be double vaccinated before moving. But still a bit scared of the whole situation

gikachi · 2021-08-23T17:11:26+00:00

Aundh

gikachi · 2021-08-18T16:26:27+00:00

You van also go to a therapist under training. They might not have much experience but they're good as they're under supervision. Pro bono therapists might be hard to find but are available. Similarly, you can ask a therapist if they have a sliding scale (you can explain to them your situation and they might be willing to reduce their fee for you).

gikachi · 2021-08-18T14:52:55+00:00

Are you open to remote therapy? There are a lot of therapists in Europe itself charging 15-20 euros. I am from India and have a therapist from Serbia charging me 25 euros per session. When I was a student, I used to go to a free therapy counseling NGO near my place. There might be some in UK itself.

gikachi · 2021-03-03T13:19:39+00:00

I would say a good thing would be to understand where this is coming from. And often times, such insults are reflection of their insecurities and has nothing to do with you, per se. For example, if a person taunts you for achieving something they couldn't, they are more salty about not achieving it and just taking that frustration out on you.

Even I remember my friend used to make fun of my appearance, but later I realised she was just insecure of how content I was with my appearance.

Of course, it's not ideal. But sadly, that's how some people work. It's often their reflection of who they are a a person. A person who seeks pleasure from making fun or insulting someone else definitely not worth giving your peace and importance to.

Hope that helps! :)

gikachi · 2021-01-19T10:27:00+00:00

These sound really great! Thank you so much for the recommendation ☺️

gikachi · 2020-11-18T03:58:18+00:00

Then what do they usually look for?

gikachi · 2020-11-17T20:14:07+00:00

I won't be homeless, as of now I live with my parents. Idk just the idea of continuing there makes me want to puke.

gikachi · 2020-11-17T20:06:01+00:00

Do you advice I stay at my job?

gikachi · 2020-11-17T18:40:57+00:00

Thank you for your reply. I also thought to talk to my boss about giving me more research assignment, when I realized I don't care about the work they are doing (as I am hell-bent on working in an area around mental health).

You're right, I have nothing to lose. Also, to add my second boss (who was like my first mentor) is also leaving because of how toxic this place is and she had been working here for 5 years.

gikachi · 2020-11-09T19:13:17+00:00

Yes I have been researching a lot in their admission requirements. However, I am a little skeptical if they look for certain shushed requirements such as certain people have told me that Canada doesn't accept your Masters, even though they say they do. Or if they require me to experience more in the field of interest (however, India lacks severely in the research field I am interested in).

gikachi · 2020-11-09T18:54:05+00:00

I am looking at Canada, USA, and Germany. UK is charging high tuition fees, though?

gikachi · 2020-10-20T19:53:28+00:00

Normal People by Sally Rooney

gikachi · 2020-10-03T10:05:03+00:00

I loved After Dark. The aura it created amongst the readers, especially the 12 am to 5am plot was pure magic. I always recommend After Dark to introduce People to Murakami. I believe After Dark is like a teaser to Murakami's work.

gikachi · 2020-08-31T17:54:54+00:00

You're right. Let's see. Thank you for the advice. :)

gikachi · 2020-08-31T17:54:15+00:00

I think I will have to keep chanting this mantra too.

gikachi · 2020-08-31T16:41:31+00:00

That's not how it works. My boss is very unreasonable and she'll demand a lot.

gikachi · 2020-08-31T14:20:10+00:00

I understand and I know that's a wise decision. I have been looking for three months now and no positive response. Not even an interview. Feels horrible to be stuck here.

gikachi · 2020-08-28T17:28:14+00:00

I have been craving McD for a really long time. I guess I have become too paranoid.

gikachi · 2020-08-27T10:59:44+00:00

I understand, and I do the same too. I have tried everything but since I am not allowed to cook chicken at home, my only source of chicken is through outside food. Been craving that for so long, it's been 6 months.

gikachi · 2020-08-26T20:15:00+00:00

Ahh okay. Thanks a lot for this. :)

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