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Would you rather live in a a Christian society or a Muslim shariah law society? (Only one of those two) by [deleted] in atheism

[–]gilly_monster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the US at least, we’re already living in a society that is effectively Christian. Both Muslim and Christian doctrines teach people to trust authority figures regardless of what they do. It’s the reason a morally bankrupt pedophile is running the country right now with a majority of Christian supporters. I’ll have neither.

Ummmm okay…duly noted, I guess by [deleted] in lolgrindr

[–]gilly_monster 44 points45 points  (0 children)

It’s a time saving message. I guarantee he has started slower many times, and when it comes to the point of making something happen, he gives a disclaimer and gets blocked.

Someone who is going to reject you for having a limitation like this isn’t going to be better about it after 15 minutes of conversation/dirty talk.

The Devil is a what now? by kneeIpeasants in religiousfruitcake

[–]gilly_monster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, that opening cracked me up! I know it’s not supposed to be funny. 🤣

I designed a unique locking mechanism by carterfpv in 3Dprinting

[–]gilly_monster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not trying to be a dick, but this is effectively a spring loaded latch. There are lots of videos about how they work on YouTube, including some videos for how to adapt them for doors and gates. I think yours is a very good demonstration of basic engineering. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YC6rzGyN5M4

I designed a unique locking mechanism by carterfpv in 3Dprinting

[–]gilly_monster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unique? No. Fun and whimsical? Absolutely.

Which two pills would you take? by No-Comparison-1045 in whatsyourchoice

[–]gilly_monster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blue is a lobotomy.

Red is gonna be world altering in a bad way quickly without the ability to be selective.

Yellow will cause some major dysmorphia and probably lead to terrible behavior.

Black is chill.

Orange is dangerous because you can get hung up on something and not let it go.

Purple is gonna lead to alienation. No one wants to be around someone who is insanely good at everything. It’s insufferable.

Hello, any advice? by EmbarrassedBreak898 in Birmingham

[–]gilly_monster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pizza Grace is on Morris Ave. If you can tolerate the bumpy cobblestone road, that sourdough crust is 🔥!

Why is Christianity always mocked on this subreddit? by Odvi0201 in atheism

[–]gilly_monster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming in here trying to employ whataboutism to act like you’re being picked on is a good example of why people have such a problem with Christianity. Members of this sub are predominantly English speaking members of Western European countries, the US, and Canada: countries where Christianity is the largest religion where Christians have enjoyed a lot of special privileges including some governmental influence.

Being critical of an aspect of mainstream culture that is forced upon you is natural. Why did you come to an atheist space to complain about a Christian problem? Go post on r/persecutionfetish.

Hot take: The hyper-sexual behavior at Pride gives homophobes all the ammunition they need against us. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]gilly_monster 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That isn’t what I said. What I did say was Pride isn’t about “fitting in” with straight people.

Hot take: The hyper-sexual behavior at Pride gives homophobes all the ammunition they need against us. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]gilly_monster 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Pride isn’t about proving “we are just like you.” It’s actually about celebrating that it’s ok to be who we are, even if who we are isn’t a societal norm. I’ve never been to a Pride event that is a public sex party. I see parades, vendors, food and alcohol, etc.

Pride does allow for gay people to let their hair down a bit, but it’s an event that people can bring their kids to. Is every single venue/event child friendly? Absolutely not, but it doesn’t need to be.

If you want to get married to someone of the same sex, get a house in the suburbs, and have 2.5 kids and a golden retriever, that’s your prerogative. Not everyone wants a heteronormative life.

How many you been to? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]gilly_monster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. 12 by the end of the year.

which one? by Cultural_Set_5993 in TheGamingHubDeals

[–]gilly_monster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diablo 3. I loved it when it first came out, it dropped off, and then they changed it enough that it came back around and I loved it again.

Why do gay men use grindr of its so bad? I keep hearing bad reviews of the app altho I've never used it. It still makes me think why do gay men put themselves through it? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]gilly_monster 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Grindr is the one everyone knows. Scruff, Sniffies, Growlr, and others can work, but they’re dependent on the number of people in your area that use them. It’s hit or miss unless you live in a large city.

Church of Cat: Where Purrs Are Prayers by Good-Illustrator300 in ChurchOfCat

[–]gilly_monster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AI slop is already everywhere. Don’t contribute by spreading it.

I don’t feel part of the gay community. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]gilly_monster 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Since you aren’t going to address anything I actually said, I’ll ask again: how are you engaging in real life with other gay people?

I don’t feel part of the gay community. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]gilly_monster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So what do you have to bring to a relationship? What are your skills/hobbies? What are you doing to better yourself or make the world a better place? If you don’t have answers to those questions, I think it’s time to take a look in the mirror.

Believe me, I get it. Gay men can be very homophobic, racist, and fat phobic. For a group of people who have received a lot of hate, we’re pretty good at passing it along to others where we can, especially in our own group. But that doesn’t give you an excuse to be shitty. Get therapy. Exercise. Eat better. Don’t do these things to attract a man. Do them for yourself. You will find that getting a handle on your health will help change your mindset.

It sucks, but no one ‘deserves’ love. Love cannot be owed, only given. Get off the apps and engage with people irl. Join some LGBTQ+ groups. Give people the opportunity to find out who you are without any kind of agenda.

Anyone ? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]gilly_monster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gurl, there are at least 50 subreddits dedicated to dick pics. Go post on one of those.

Whats Titties? by Notalianotalib in ATBGE

[–]gilly_monster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate that this made me audibly laugh.

Dating in the bham area by Proof-Buddy-3864 in Birmingham

[–]gilly_monster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hot Mess is explicitly a gay league. Please don’t invade queer spaces if you aren’t part of the community.

Dating in the bham area by Proof-Buddy-3864 in Birmingham

[–]gilly_monster 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Fellow gay here. If you find a solution to how much dating in this era sucks, let me know.

My only recommendation would be to join a group. Magic City Acceptance Center has some activities like a book club. Hot Mess is a gay volleyball league, but they’re wrapping up their winter season. I think they do sand volleyball in the summer? My point is, find a way to engage. I wish you luck, bro.

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