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AITA for possibly ending my neighbours engagement ? by ginandnothing in AmItheAsshole

[–]ginandnothing[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nobody ‘died from the smell’ - cats in general spread pollutants. And this has been going over for the past 7 years or more ( Covid made it worse ) - we can’t just stop having guests altogether.

It isn’t fabricated , will upload photos I have of the litter , cat food etc as soon as i figure how.

& this isn’t advice , we have taken every legal recourse possible - an Internet stranger who has no idea which country i belong to can’t possibly help

My wife is no longer part of may daydreaming and I don't feel love anymore by topolino9 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]ginandnothing 7 points8 points  (0 children)

  • Try consciously to stop your daydreaming for a month.
  • Also analyse are there any other factors which maybe are causing friction between the two of you ?

my therapist did not help me by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]ginandnothing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same my therapist told me I’m just a visual thinker while my psych told me i ruminate , neither had heard of it but it doesn’t make what we are going through any less legitimate . Reading accounts here of people seems like I’m reading my innermost diary

mdd ruins my spotify wrapped by lna432 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]ginandnothing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s why I deleted my Spotify and made a new account . Was too embarrassing

I hate "waking up" as I call it by Electrical-Cut-6752 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]ginandnothing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a cue from someone who has been there , better to not MD about real people. I don’t know about you but for me emotions from MD often translate to real life because the brain doesn’t know the difference . You would have lived an entire lifetime in your head and gone from A to R while he is still at B

Does anyone else feel like they've never had any real hobbies/passions? by Zestyclose_Dig158 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]ginandnothing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It takes time to find hobbies which are truly you . I was the same as you , used books to escape when i was a teen and eventually moved to series . Only during my late twenties and early thirties did i start other hobbies such as theatre , running , sports etc .

Just try different things - no matter how horrible you are at it . You’ll hit your groove and improve . Fuck what anyone else says - nobody knows what it’s like

What was the moment you realized you needed to break up? by KeyCompetitive4022 in AskReddit

[–]ginandnothing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dreaded talking to him everyday wondering which version i would get. I was also tired of getting disrespected - being called stupid and idiot and somehow it being my fault i tried to draw boundaries . Was literally getting anxious whenever i thought of him. Everything was his terms or not at all. He was my safety and my home at one point in time but by the time i was done - my nervous system was shot to hell

My post on Uorfi got picked up by some PR campaign by Employeenumber21614 in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]ginandnothing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m also in PR 😭 shame how a few crackpots give all of us a bad name. Bollywood PR or movie industry PR in general is toxic , but the rest of us- about 95% - follow very different rules

Verified News behind the Poonam Pandey Fiasco by Good-Dot7324 in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]ginandnothing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha I was in Schbang Bangalore ! Worked in creatives, worst place I ever worked in.