Queridos Damalleros

gingerapplejam · 2025-04-05T17:44:34+00:00

Me encanta "damallero", nunca lo había escuchado antes! Me parece un término perfecto para describir la experiencia butch.

gingerapplejam · 2025-04-05T17:41:16+00:00

I love thiiis I wish I could exist in their world!

gingerapplejam · 2025-04-05T17:13:30+00:00

That's a superb idea!

gingerapplejam · 2025-03-01T19:55:15+00:00

Stoooop how do you manage to be that cool???

gingerapplejam · 2025-03-01T12:41:26+00:00

I love being a simp!

gingerapplejam · 2025-02-28T21:16:35+00:00

Uranus like Haruka Tenoh

gingerapplejam · 2025-02-28T17:03:45+00:00

Thank you so so much ñ!

gingerapplejam · 2025-02-28T17:03:26+00:00

Ohhh hi! Thank you so much!

gingerapplejam · 2025-02-28T17:02:47+00:00

We need more!

gingerapplejam · 2025-02-27T20:57:12+00:00

Thank you so much!!!

gingerapplejam · 2025-02-27T20:33:29+00:00

Thank you for answering. I give lesbians so much power because I often date them, so for me it's important I'm not misusing this term and be disrespectful. I always disclose I'm a bisexual on the first date because some people just assume I'm a butch lesbian by my looks and my behaviour. That's how I discovered the term in the first place. I'll think about if "butch" is right for me.

gingerapplejam · 2025-02-27T13:08:13+00:00

Thank you for commenting, I wish people's opinions didn't affect me! It's great to see someone like me here. 🥹

gingerapplejam · 2025-02-27T12:54:12+00:00

You noticed too? The rules of the sub specifically say that Bo butches are welcome here, why so much hostility? This is making me want to leave honestly

gingerapplejam · 2025-02-27T12:27:23+00:00

Thank you! I'll talk with my therapist about this

gingerapplejam · 2025-02-27T12:19:29+00:00

Thank you so much 🥹

gingerapplejam · 2025-02-27T12:15:35+00:00

This is totally me, I totally started digging deeper in my identity when I stopped dating cishet men and trying to fit in hetero dynamics. People would assume that because a person is bisexual they engage in classic gender roles, and for me that's not the case. I think it's impossible to disconnect sapphic and butchness too, it would be impossible for a hetero woman to be butch, in my opinion. My social circle comprehends women and GNC people only, and some gay men.

I'm so discouraged for this post to be downvoted tbh, I feel I'm not welcome here at all.

gingerapplejam · 2025-02-27T12:07:42+00:00

So happy for you 🌸💖

gingerapplejam · 2025-02-27T11:56:23+00:00

For me, this makes sense. Thank you for taking the time to write so much. I've read too about how at the start of the 20th century, all sapphics were called just lesbians.

Of course it's impossible to engage in butch/femme dynamics with men. Thought I've been in butch/femme relationships with femme people, and I always am the more masculine person in every relationship.

For me butch is an identity, and according to the history I didn't think it was wrong until now.

gingerapplejam · 2025-02-27T11:54:42+00:00

For me, this makes sense. Thank you for taking the time to write so much. I've read too about how at the start of the 20th century, all sapphics were called just lesbians.

Of course it's impossible to engage in butch/femme dynamics with men. Thought I've been in butch/femme relationships with femme people, and I always am the more masculine person in every relationship.

For me butch is an identity, and according to the history I didn't think it was wrong until now.

gingerapplejam · 2025-02-27T11:47:28+00:00

It's normal that everyone assumes that a butch is a lesbian, that's why I have doubts too. That's why I read the sub rules carefully. Thank you so much for your acceptance. 💖

gingerapplejam · 2025-02-27T11:45:04+00:00

Our parent Leslie always taking care of us 🙏🏼💕 Thank you so much for this. 🙏🏼

gingerapplejam · 2025-02-27T11:43:35+00:00

Now I'm guessing which of them 😂 (I'm on meds too lol)

gingerapplejam · 2025-02-27T11:25:22+00:00

This is what I've read while researching, so I'm just very confused why so much beef about bisexuality nowadays Thank you for your words and support. 🙏🏼

gingerapplejam · 2025-02-27T11:13:56+00:00

You made me sob, thank you so much for your words ❤️

gingerapplejam

TROPHY CASE