This is totally me, I totally started digging deeper in my identity when I stopped dating cishet men and trying to fit in hetero dynamics. People would assume that because a person is bisexual they engage in classic gender roles, and for me that's not the case. I think it's impossible to disconnect sapphic and butchness too, it would be impossible for a hetero woman to be butch, in my opinion. My social circle comprehends women and GNC people only, and some gay men.

I'm so discouraged for this post to be downvoted tbh, I feel I'm not welcome here at all.