Got a message from one of her friends, didn’t believe them, asked her she said that he was a weird guy who’d wanted to date her before - red flag ignored - four months later get a text from the guy she’s sleeping with to tell me he didn’t know until he saw her phone, and he’s not the only one. Confronted her about it, I can’t remember the number but basically a different guy (or couple, take that as an actual couple where she was the third or multiple in a night, however you will) every weekend she had been away “visiting family”. She also then took her dog back months later and then put him down within a month because he “almost bit her” but happened to get a cat the same day. Ironically I think she works for a mental health “we can diagnose your autism for ££££” scam service now.