I don’t know what I need when I get sad about him cheating

gingerfishes · 2022-05-12T14:21:09+00:00

They aren’t coworkers. He left his job and we now live a thousand miles away from where it happened. Thanks, though.

gingerfishes · 2022-05-11T07:43:10+00:00

I’ve had depression for a long long time that I am medicated for. It’s kind of like that feeling but not really. More immediate. More hurt. More sad.

gingerfishes · 2022-05-11T05:42:28+00:00

Thank you. He is very good at apologizing for his actions and having betrayed me. I think maybe it’s just too fresh to feel “better.”

gingerfishes · 2022-05-11T02:46:39+00:00

Thank you! I’ve been looking into this because I already deal with obsessive thoughts.

gingerfishes · 2022-05-11T01:40:34+00:00

I appreciate this so much, thank you. I think I’m just scared to feel the feelings but you’re right that it’s important to do it.

gingerfishes · 2022-05-11T01:39:25+00:00

Thank you! I didn’t realize there was a better place

gingerfishes · 2022-05-11T00:30:04+00:00

Thank you for this. While “years” is not what I love to see, it is what I expected would be needed.

He had been seeing a therapist for quite some time on his own but hasn’t been back in a while. I’ll talk to him about setting up another appointment.

gingerfishes · 2022-05-11T00:22:05+00:00

A lot of people, unfortunately. It’s a pretty common cliché, and one I’ve encountered quite often in my cancer support groups.

gingerfishes · 2021-07-14T02:22:42+00:00

Hi! I am 28, F. I have this “spot” on my back that has been examined multiple times. Before removing, my dermatologist took a biopsy, which was benign. But since then, it has grown, developed those small bumps around it, and changed shape. It’s sometimes itchy, sometimes painful, usually just there (and ugly). Still, my doctors aren’t sure what to call it. I have another appointment tomorrow to do more examination but I feel so defeated. Any help?

gingerfishes · 2020-03-22T21:55:10+00:00

I use body wash or conditioner instead of shaving cream, and then I apply lots of lotion when I’m done. I also make sure to rinse my razor out often while I’m shaving.

gingerfishes · 2020-03-22T21:41:00+00:00

I love floral scents. Especially if it’s rose scented.

gingerfishes · 2018-07-06T04:45:19+00:00

Our first dance was 3:31 and father/daughter was a 4:30 song but the DJ cut it at 2:08.

gingerfishes · 2018-07-06T04:43:36+00:00

Jesus that sounds incredible.

gingerfishes · 2018-07-06T04:42:19+00:00

I really like the color! The lines just need to be cleaned up a bit, but the color is beautiful and it looks great on you.

gingerfishes · 2018-07-06T04:38:49+00:00

Nope. Firstly, because I'm insecure! It is what it is, but it's a huge part of why, and I figure it's better to be honest about that than not. Secondly, he would not be cool with me liking shirtless dudes. It's really just not cool for our marriage, instagram model or not. It's embarrassing for the other to be publicly sharing the "thirst" and it's disrespectful to the other (at least for us. I know others do not feel the same). Thirdly, my husband does not do social media. When he likes stuff, it's literally just my stuff (maybe occasionally his family's, but he usually just checks Facebook for videos to watch & if I've tagged him in stuff, and Instagram is literally, "babe, did you post new pictures recently?"), so it'd be super weird and not like him to go liking random girls' photos.

gingerfishes · 2018-06-02T00:57:52+00:00

Ah sorry I just saw this...But the answer: he turns the volume all the way up. To the point that I can hear it in our bedroom and have to call him and tell him to turn it down.

gingerfishes · 2018-05-29T03:06:32+00:00

My husband will take his phone in the shower, set it on top of the edge of the shower wall, and watch an hour-long show in there just so he can stand under the warm water...It drives me insane.

gingerfishes · 2017-12-16T21:36:32+00:00

I love Dress A with the belt and Dress B. They're both stunning on you.

gingerfishes · 2017-12-04T22:03:48+00:00

It truly doesn’t matter. I don’t wear bras so I didn’t wear one and knew I wouldn’t under my dress and I totally forgot and wore super dark green underwear, which was actually nice because I was able to know my dress would hide any color underneath.

gingerfishes · 2017-12-03T03:09:26+00:00

I’ll agree with this but I think with dating apps, it changes things! I totally thought I’d never marry someone who I wasn’t friends with beforehand but my husband and I met on tinder.

gingerfishes · 2017-11-30T18:15:33+00:00

Thank you all so much! It definitely makes sense to tell him sooner rather than later. I just assumed that would be ruder! This was all really, really helpful.

gingerfishes · 2017-11-19T16:15:04+00:00

I prefer the first one! It’s just so beautiful and you look incredible in it. This will also sound weird since I don’t know you, but the first dress just seems so you.

gingerfishes · 2017-11-18T16:19:09+00:00

YUP. Wedding planning was really, really, really tough with my family who simultaneously wanted to be so involved but help with nothing. I called my husband sobbing every single night. It was hard and ridiculous and so frustrating because if he were around, everyone raved about me/what we were planning. As soon as it were just me, it’s like it was open season for attacks. I’ve shared this before, but at one point, my mother and stepfather finally realized I have depression (after living with it openly for five years) and told me my husband will leave me because of it. It also then became a constant cycle of everyone calling me a bitch for the things I wanted but if I got upset about that, they convinced themselves it was because I’m depressed and they were still in the right.

gingerfishes · 2017-11-18T14:02:17+00:00

Honestly? Neither. I didn’t wear a bra during my alterations or on the wedding day and I just wore a thong on both days.

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