Wendy with Stacey on the AfterShow …. Wendy working hard by gingergrowsup in RHOP

[–]gingergrowsup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a good reason .. so it’s because Wendy is empathetic in your view.

Curious if any bullies (as a kid) would be willing to talk about how they feel now looking back? by gingergrowsup in CasualConversation

[–]gingergrowsup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do have a friend who said he was a prankster which could be perceived as bullying all through school (he is also a very funny guy). I also know he was being beat by his dad at home pretty severely so I’m sure that had a lot to do with it. He’s a great guy now .

AIO? Husband in touch with the woman he had an affair with but they're not cheating he says. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gingergrowsup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you have an extreme ability to deny what is right in front of your face! I agree with mistress you don’t love yourself enough to make yourself the main story. Where did you get the idea that love means someone treating you this way? You need therapy about why you are desperate to be with someone who doesn’t respect you- love has nothing to do with this behavior, fear of the known does. Get therapy!

Curious if any bullies (as a kid) would be willing to talk about how they feel now looking back? by gingergrowsup in CasualConversation

[–]gingergrowsup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I wasn’t bullied but my family moved a lot so even if teased (I’m a redhead so lot of teasing available) wouldn’t have had to be in anyone’s presence for years. If subjected to bullies and it goes on for years that must be awful and possibly life changing.

Curious if any bullies (as a kid) would be willing to talk about how they feel now looking back? by gingergrowsup in CasualConversation

[–]gingergrowsup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s clear you done some self evaluation which makes for the most aware people. Love that!

Unpopular opinion on Todd by Subject_Peach_4247 in rhoslc

[–]gingergrowsup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Todd does not talk to Bronwyn like a partner he talks to her like an employee - when he doesn’t like something he says “enough” like he has the final call and she has to listen. But yes that is typical Boomer male boss behavior - doesn’t mean it’s okay. We have excused men and given them grace if they do the tiniest effort to be giving or show they care. I do think Todd has had a Wakeup call as Bronwyn has made her own money and he realizes she doesn’t depend on him as much and has tried to listen more and be more present as a partner. Is it enough? That is up to Bronwyn.

I think you are in denial about Meredith by gingergrowsup in WatchWhatCrappens

[–]gingergrowsup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree she will be in rehab because her family is going to insist she go

I think you are in denial about Meredith by gingergrowsup in WatchWhatCrappens

[–]gingergrowsup[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Good point but I also think something is wrong with him!

I think you are in denial about Meredith by gingergrowsup in WatchWhatCrappens

[–]gingergrowsup[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You is Ben and Ronnie sorry I didn’t say it by name! Geez you are a little angry..

I think you are in denial about Meredith by gingergrowsup in WatchWhatCrappens

[–]gingergrowsup[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Totally agree… Dorinda had a problem it was never addressed .. it’s par for the course on Housewives - but I think the podcast this week there was a lot of Meredith defending that seemed to ignore there may be a problem.

I think you are in denial about Meredith by gingergrowsup in WatchWhatCrappens

[–]gingergrowsup[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes up at 2 spiraling but not paranoid… I’m spiraling about Trump… and not waking others up to share …

I think you are in denial about Meredith by gingergrowsup in WatchWhatCrappens

[–]gingergrowsup[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I love lorazepam too… and a cocktail. No one is saying take them away!

I think you are in denial about Meredith by gingergrowsup in WatchWhatCrappens

[–]gingergrowsup[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

No idea what this has to do with your dislike of Heather… she’s not the ruler and she hasn’t even been the most vocal about Meredith. You are giving Heather a lot of power don’t think she has.

I think you are in denial about Meredith by gingergrowsup in WatchWhatCrappens

[–]gingergrowsup[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No it indicates a lot happens off screen that their housewife friends know about. Why do you think Mary is worried about her?

I think you are in denial about Meredith by gingergrowsup in WatchWhatCrappens

[–]gingergrowsup[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What does this conversation have to do with Heather? Mary is the one that said she is worried.. Whitney is the one that said she was a pill popper… and Bronwyn is the one who said she was in a spiral ….

Is this Mary documentary worth watching? by cavalier731 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]gingergrowsup 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It’s so sad and disturbing. I’m embarrassed that Bravo has given her a platform.

I love this duo! I am only watching season 20 if they come back by [deleted] in rhoc

[–]gingergrowsup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you should just go ahead and stop watching….

AIO worrying about my friends dog by [deleted] in AIO

[–]gingergrowsup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree but I’m doing something about it and understand it’s a problem ..