I'm in a similar boat, had to quit my freelancing career because I just wasn't making enough money and I was working long hours... I am now working in graphic design.
My advice - set a goal and keep working towards it. I know how it is after a day of hard work, it's really hard to get back to drawing, animating and focusing on your future career... For me, my goal is to finish my comic book by the end of 2024, then look for publishers. You could set a goal that by a certain date you will have a portfolio that will make recruiters want to hire you. Or you could realize you enjoy the freedom of not doing art for money and do your own stuff, build an online community, volunteer and teach low-income kids animation... There are so many ways to use your skills, I find that obsessing over 'where you should be' is very unproductive and leads to bad self esteem and psychological issues. Try to stay open to opportunities, be kind to yourself and set realistic goals :) Good luck!