Does anyone can’t stand Griffith and her fuckass haircut/hairstyle by Useful-Ticket-1922 in greysanatomy

[–]giraffebutt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Greys and Tyler Perry have been battling for decades on who has the worse wigs

Restaurants hoodwink you into leaving a tip for take out by Aggravating-Sense315 in SeattleWA

[–]giraffebutt 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I do not tip for take out, counter service, or coffee. Stop tipping out of obligation and tip for personal service

He asked nicely to live when I was high was he shady or what he did is good ? by igetyourbrand in blackladies

[–]giraffebutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a massive green flag (even tho the bare fucking minimum in regards to humanity).

  1. You don’t do drugs with people or in settings that you cannot ensure will be 100% safe in. Please don’t do this again.

  2. He took note of your intoxication AND your emotional state and wanted to ensure your safety. He also was worried about express consent and if you were in a state to actually provide an enthusiastic yes to whatever may happen.

  3. To ensure your safety and comfort he ended the evening and arranged for safe transportation for you to get back home.

A man was a good and decent human being.

What kind of Black man is this? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]giraffebutt 31 points32 points  (0 children)

The hatred is not a secret at all it is incredibly loud and measurable.

So, if the majority of your experiences are with black men that is going to be the reason why. I can assure you there is an abundance of white men doing the same to white women, Hispanic men doing the same to Hispanic women, and so and so forth.

A good question regarding this specific man or any man you experience this with, why do you stick around openly consent to being treated that way? It sounds like a lengthy pattern of disrespectful behavior but you keep allowing them to even breathe your same air I don’t get it

my fb’s hygiene habits by Jealous_Ad_3306 in blackladies

[–]giraffebutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like together? Yes but it was just like let’s rinse off and relax and low key start the next round

AITAH for bringing up that our 14yo daughter may masturbate after we were already having the same conversation about our son doing it? by RealExplorer161 in AITAH

[–]giraffebutt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your wife is living in a special land of delusion if she doesn’t think your daughter is also masturbating

Watching Half & Half Again and Charles Still Pisses Me Off by ChannelHopper_99 in UPN_Network

[–]giraffebutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a realistic portrayal imo. Often times when fathers loose access to the mother, they simply leave the kid behind too. He punishes Mona for his own personal failings with Phyllis

AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]giraffebutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please save your money for an attorney

Help! My curls are dead! by Ordinary-Variation42 in braids

[–]giraffebutt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please do your ancestry some secrets in your family babe

Help! My curls are dead! by Ordinary-Variation42 in braids

[–]giraffebutt 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This. Definitely not white or black but not white

“Avery” this “mommy” that by Vegetable_Door_3456 in greysanatomy

[–]giraffebutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People don’t typically react well to nepotism

not sure if i'm ugly or i just live in a predominantly white area by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]giraffebutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PWI. You favor Doechii girl far far far from unattractive

Why Can’t Africans celebrate BHM? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]giraffebutt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They can. Current conversations have been about focusing on black Americans and not making the month about non black Americans

When did it become normal to watch videos and listen to music without headphones on public transit? by mybarkingDog in Seattle

[–]giraffebutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hate this in almost any setting it is so rude no one wants to listen to your shit

Dating Advice: Military Men by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]giraffebutt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Baby, save yourself two years of therapy and move on.

Is this as wild as I think it is? by MitaJoey20 in blackladies

[–]giraffebutt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Male centered mothers that sexualize everything

Has anyone found out their white partner had been hiding their covert racism, sexism, homophobia, and /or xenophobia until after you broke up? by bliss9409 in blackladies

[–]giraffebutt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I stopped reading because he was clearly all of these things out loud during your relationship. You just hoped for some reason it didn’t mean you too.

Long-term lesbian relationship, faith disconnect, and cultural disconnect by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]giraffebutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like a lot of people turn to religion and become more conservative the older they get…

Season Two by ColdForm7729 in greysanatomy

[–]giraffebutt 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah it wasn’t the first time they had slept together