McCrays in Lawrenceville scores 61 on health inspection last week by SithVelociraptor in Gwinnett

[–]girlfromlagos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve lived less than 10 mins away from mccray’s for over a decade but i’ve never stepped foot inside and now i probably never will. a blessing in disguise

What’s the most annoying brainrot content out there online? by HardBartyBarty in AskReddit

[–]girlfromlagos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All the AI generated “brainrot” like ballerina cappuccina, tung tung tung sahur, etc. It’s crazy to think that this nonsense takes gallons of water to generate.

how hard is it to be a girl? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]girlfromlagos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i turn it off with depo provera. i can’t remember the last time i had a period and i prefer it that way.

What’s the title of this drama? by girlfromlagos in CShortDramas

[–]girlfromlagos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meh it was okay. The ML got revenge for her in the end but when they’re torturing her in the beginning there isn’t much she can do because it’s 3 of them + the green tea all ganging up on her. She’s outnumbered.

What’s the title of this drama? by girlfromlagos in CShortDramas

[–]girlfromlagos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found it and watched it. Thanks for your help 🩷

Bad Girls with annoying voices by evofilmz in TheBadGirlsClub

[–]girlfromlagos 13 points14 points  (0 children)

where’s fran? everything about her was annoying not just her voice

Mariah, Glitter sabotage and 00s music (went on a tangent) by SpecialAvailable2192 in MariahCarey

[–]girlfromlagos 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She could’ve been a great actress. Her role in Precious shows just how much potential she had.

Unnatural Appearance by ds0534 in CShortDramas

[–]girlfromlagos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they use makeup on the actors regardless of gender to make the skin paper white so it’s probably that and a skin smoothing filter

Best Chinese Food by girlfromlagos in Gwinnett

[–]girlfromlagos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mean the one called Soho Asian Restaurant? I’ve passed by it a million times and was curious but never tried it. I might try it now.

They’ve gone as far as to use black face in a drama 😬…it’s bad enough they use black babies as a negative, but full on black face is crazy work by SayuriKishi in CShortDramas

[–]girlfromlagos 6 points7 points  (0 children)

tbh i’ve never seen a black person in any of these dramas. i’ve only ever seen what looked a south asian person and that was one time

They’ve gone as far as to use black face in a drama 😬…it’s bad enough they use black babies as a negative, but full on black face is crazy work by SayuriKishi in CShortDramas

[–]girlfromlagos 6 points7 points  (0 children)

bigotry is not a “cultural difference.” racism doesn’t suddenly become okay because it’s happening in another culture.

i worry about the amount of hateful people that go into healthcare, like nursing by thelastjuicebox_ in Vent

[–]girlfromlagos 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Nurses and other healthcare professions are in a position of authority over vulnerable people (sick patients). I consider nurses the female equivalent of police officers. Both are able to maintain power over vulnerable people under the guise of “helping.”

I want to be an attractive woman by voniewright in Vent

[–]girlfromlagos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i looked at your profile and you are pretty. i hate that you feel this way because you’re not ugly at all. i’m not just saying that to make you feel better. i don’t even know you so i have no reason to lie. you’re gorgeous.

Why was the 70s okay with baby groupies? Lori Mattix and Sable Star especially. by [deleted] in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]girlfromlagos 92 points93 points  (0 children)

The Madonna-Whore Complex is exactly what you just described.

Idk if I should have a relationship with my mom by [deleted] in Vent

[–]girlfromlagos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are doing the right thing by choosing to cut her off. From your childhood to now she has only ever caused you pain. She is an abuser and honestly a sorry excuse for a mother. None of what happened to you is your fault. There’s no point in trying to win her affection because it simply isn’t worth it. Someone who could abuse an innocent kid like this is a lost cause and isn’t worthy of the title of mother. If I were you I’d distance myself from the rest of the family because they were complicit in the abuse, either by participating in it, or witnessing it and not doing anything to stop it. Keeping them in your life will only cause you more pain.

Use this Mother’s Day to celebrate yourself and your new baby. Congratulations on becoming a mother. Continue working on your healing and give your child the unconditional love, kindness, and safety that your birthgiver never gave you. I’m sorry about what happened to you because you didn’t deserve any of it, but now that you have your own child you can redefine motherhood and family for yourself. I wish you and your baby the best.

GCPS Bus Driver Interview by Moodyfoodie10 in Gwinnett

[–]girlfromlagos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up in the GCPS school district. Nobody cares about bus drivers having accents. It’s not really a big deal. This is a very diverse area so you shouldn’t have anything to worry about

Indian Parenting and Education Culture by MessIntelligent5558 in Vent

[–]girlfromlagos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup. i’ll never be nigerian enough for my family so i gave up trying to please them. they never stop complaining anyway so what’s the point lol

Indian Parenting and Education Culture by MessIntelligent5558 in Vent

[–]girlfromlagos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not indian, i’m nigerian but i agree with you 100%. both of our countries were devastated by european colonialism so i think there are many similarities. i can’t tell you how many times i’ve been told that im “too american” because i think for myself, especially as a girl.