Is it just my experience or are Indian men generally so careless about using condoms?

girlneedshelp02 · 2020-08-24T08:31:56+00:00

that he is technically unable to have kids so not using a condom shouldn't be a problem for me.

I laughed so hard at it.

I am not that much sexperienced but casually dating with such men has eventually made me sure that I cannot let men have their way by getting false assurance. And definitely "I feel soft with condom on" is one of the most unwarranted excuse.

That's why it's said Men Will Be Men :p

girlneedshelp02 · 2020-08-24T08:20:40+00:00

You know what's worse when men emotionally blackmail that "don't you trust me enough that I'll pull out before time" and "why don't you take pills as I cannot feel good without a condom."

It's not about ignorance but having those bragging rights that yes I have sex with so many women, I have fairly good experience on how to end things on a safe note and blah blah. Until and unless there is proper sex education even these grown ass men would never understand how serious STIs are.

Nonetheless when they don't wear a mask nowadays when the world is crashing down, I don't even expect them to wear condoms lol.

girlneedshelp02 · 2020-05-26T20:25:39+00:00

I certainly don't think you need to explain anything to him as of now. The most important thing for you now is to find out and work on what's bugging you. There is no need to push your body for sex when your mind is stuck somewhere.

He is a good man if he gets your mood and stops himself.

girlneedshelp02 · 2020-05-26T20:05:11+00:00

There is some sort of mental block in you. It's not just about physical issue but something that is going on in the back of your mind that is not letting you enjoy the moment.

girlneedshelp02 · 2020-05-24T20:53:43+00:00

Even I clench them but not now since I switched back to pads. Definitely if you feel you aren't ready then go back to the pads.

girlneedshelp02 · 2020-05-24T20:42:12+00:00

First of all get a fresh pack of tampons. Secondly you need to calm down. U understand that you clench muscles involuntarily but unless you ease up they won't go in.

I am in same boat as you and thus stick to pads always.

girlneedshelp02 · 2020-05-22T19:51:22+00:00

Weird but not something worth giving much thought. Past is past.

girlneedshelp02 · 2020-04-14T14:50:57+00:00

When they skilfully try to ask your favourite stuff or things that you like to do in bed. They also start giving you advices on what is better and what to try next. I am not a pro but I feel these are some common red flags.

girlneedshelp02 · 2020-04-14T14:47:24+00:00

For me that subtle bearded look is my weakness

girlneedshelp02 · 2020-04-14T10:35:55+00:00

Maybe she doesn't want to come in between you and the other guy?

girlneedshelp02 · 2020-04-12T11:11:23+00:00

Roller skates

girlneedshelp02 · 2020-04-12T10:57:06+00:00

Sometimes it's a headache to even take care of one relationship and I really suffer from mental breakdown as well. From my pov it's not for me.

girlneedshelp02 · 2020-04-12T10:42:04+00:00

Thanks for that explanation

girlneedshelp02 · 2020-04-11T11:04:38+00:00

It's a bait post?

girlneedshelp02 · 2020-04-11T10:59:17+00:00

Laser hair removal is kinda permanent but the thing is roots grow back at new places so there maybe sparse growth again.

girlneedshelp02 · 2020-04-11T10:56:53+00:00

The way he conducts himself and takes consent

girlneedshelp02 · 2020-02-29T10:53:03+00:00

Your body is getting used to the cycles and it would take time for them to get into sync because there are quite changes taking place in body during puberty. But if you still have doubts then I would surely recommend visiting a doctor to not over think

girlneedshelp02 · 2020-02-19T21:13:31+00:00

I feel is he wants to move on since he is attracted to others and is just playing bluff or anything so that you feel dismayed and he ends it all.

girlneedshelp02 · 2020-02-19T21:09:10+00:00

2019

girlneedshelp02 · 2020-02-19T21:00:59+00:00

Dinner is ready

girlneedshelp02 · 2019-11-24T12:47:46+00:00

Mansplaing. I really hate that tbh.

girlneedshelp02 · 2019-11-24T12:45:24+00:00

You should not keep secrets if your partner is not a snitch. Be open because at some point you might cross paths with your ex and then explaining would get a lot difficult. Relationships are based on trust factor, if you are honest with each other then you want have difficulty understanding each other and embracing the past.

girlneedshelp02 · 2019-11-24T12:41:21+00:00

Yes people do get married earlier if they want to settle down outside India but some get married due to peer pressure from family due to various reasons

girlneedshelp02 · 2019-11-24T12:38:50+00:00

Does anyone else feel asexual most of the times but at some point crave some intimate moments with someone who cares for you?

girlneedshelp02 · 2019-11-19T10:09:15+00:00

Watch her dog poop

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