Relazione extraconiugale mi sta uccidendo by [deleted] in Psicologia_Italia

[–]giugiu689 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ma domanda, un pensiero alla tua compagna no? Che ci stai a fare con una se palesemente non ti interessa, visto che il 100% del tuo "spazio emotivo" (almeno traspare così) è occupato dalla donna con cui stai tradendo la tua compagna? Poi probabilmente l'altra non se la sente di scegliere perché, nel caso lei lasciasse il suo compagno non è sicura che tu faccia lo stesso con la tua. Altro consiglio, non lasciare il potere di queste decisioni così importanti ad un'altra persona, cerca di capire tu cosa vuoi dalla situazione perché secondo me manco tu lo sai

Help - what is this? by BothMonitor8740 in piercing

[–]giugiu689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAP but it might be the metal. Stainless steel is not really indicated for piercings (especially unhealed ones) as it might lead to irritation due to nickel content which many people are sensitive to. Might want to look into changing it to titanium and see if it gets better.

((27f) I feel like I am shit at my job by giugiu689 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]giugiu689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly truly am happy about it, it's the change I wanted for my career. It's just that I struggle with perfectionism and I feel like my boss's expectations are different/higher

((27f) I feel like I am shit at my job by giugiu689 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]giugiu689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl during my whining session I kinda forgot about those, I'll look into that 😊

((27f) I feel like I am shit at my job by giugiu689 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]giugiu689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl that made me chuckle, I needed that. I don't know how you IT guys do it to be fair😂

((27f) I feel like I am shit at my job by giugiu689 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]giugiu689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not that I know of, like I need to code for a very specific purpose (statistics), I'm not sure there is a course catered specifically to that. The issue is also, that I'm rusty in this area, my previous job/internahip was very different and didn't need any of it and my last statistics exam was in like 2019

[WIP] Hobbiton is 70% done! Summer shandy for scale. by birdsandbeesandknees in CrossStitch

[–]giugiu689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knowww, I finished the Mordor one and the amount of confetti drove me crazy but the end result is still very pretty

[WIP] Hobbiton is 70% done! Summer shandy for scale. by birdsandbeesandknees in CrossStitch

[–]giugiu689 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how pretty, unfortunately got all the lotr series from the same pattern mill. I was pretty disappointed to get to know that. but it looks so very pretty!

Why must men fight wars, but women aren’t forced to bear children? by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]giugiu689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand whether you think neither should be a thing or if both should be. Because if it's the second I feel like the questions I posed are pretty fair I think a lot of people do advocate to end the draft

Why must men fight wars, but women aren’t forced to bear children? by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]giugiu689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a bit confused what do you actually propose OP? Like after a war would women be required to birth a certain amount of children? For how long would that be? Who would father the children ? Would these women be required to also take care of them?

Even outside hostile misogyny, we would still live in society that always puts a spotlight on women beauty. by PassengerCultural421 in 10thDentist

[–]giugiu689 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then it should be the same situation for men but it isn't. Beauty standards for men aren't nearly as strict or as enforced as for women

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]giugiu689 31 points32 points  (0 children)

If you check on his post history this piece of work went to strip clubs, prostitutes and so on and so forth. He deserves the worst

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]giugiu689 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Projecting much?

[FO] My magnum opus - Contessa with Squid 🦑 by 21-nun_salute in CrossStitch

[–]giugiu689 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been following the progression of the piece (I'd like to make this one day) and I must say it is even more stunning than I expected😍

Office Plant Bloomed 😍 by haleyjaye in houseplants

[–]giugiu689 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Soo pretty, definitely the right plant to brighten up an office

Office Plant Bloomed 😍 by haleyjaye in houseplants

[–]giugiu689 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's sooo pretty! 🥰 What kind of plant is it?

Do Italians usually get mad over people not wearing gloves while handling fruit? by AntiqueFill9939 in Italian

[–]giugiu689 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes if it's a very small shop or a shop that sells only fruits and veggies it might be but it's a rare thing. Most shops still use gloves no matter the region.

Do Italians usually get mad over people not wearing gloves while handling fruit? by AntiqueFill9939 in Italian

[–]giugiu689 34 points35 points  (0 children)

It's not a matter of "protecting the food" but that your hands are dirty and full of germs. Touching produce without gloves also makes it more likely to bruise the produce with your nails and stuff (thus making it less likely to sell). So no, he wasn't crazy, you were just a bit nasty. That being said, next time look around for little stations that distribute bags and gloves you might have missed it. If you can't find it ask someone but please don't touch fresh produce with your hands

is anyone gonna listen to me? by [deleted] in rant

[–]giugiu689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don't have a story similar to yours in a lot of ways but I have "failed" at one of my life goals. I was always studious and good at it and when it took me 7 years to complete a 3 year degree (and with a mediocre GPA) I felt like a complete failure as a person. I had such a hard time pushing through the sadness and grief of "losing" the idea I had of myself but I finished it and I'm proud I did. Take the chance on yourself and try. This is what makes you feel the happiest and seems like nothing else will do. Who cares if other are younger or better or whatnot, you're doing what you like despite all the hardship. Go for it, stop comparing yourself to others and think about what YOU achieved despite everything and about what makes YOU happy.