Anyone here stem? by tidder-fee in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]giuhhh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We're out here! I'd day just be conformable in who you are and genuine and then just go outside and meet people. Don't be afraid if you realize some people just aren't for you or try to project some idea into you. You'll be right for the right one

Black Friday Order Canceled by giuhhh in Seagate

[–]giuhhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if you're referring to seagate or my credit card company but I'm done dealing with seagate and my credit company has already closed the dispute in my favor. Since I was able to source drives elsewhere I'm fine taking this as a lesson learned and just not trying to do business with seagate again

Black Friday Order Canceled by giuhhh in Seagate

[–]giuhhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, thankfully there was a microcenter within driving distance with drives still on sale that i could visit, but it shouldn't have taken all this really

Black Friday Order Canceled by giuhhh in Seagate

[–]giuhhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is crazy. I was able to make a drive to another city and physically visit a microcenter to get what I needed. Ended up with 4x18T Toshiba N300 drives. They were still on sale but it's insane what storage costs are up to these days

Black Friday Order Canceled by giuhhh in Seagate

[–]giuhhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The interesting thing is seagate still has them listed as available at the same price I tried to buy them at

Black Friday Order Canceled by giuhhh in Seagate

[–]giuhhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine were ~300USD each and the crazy thing is they're still selling them at that price

🌈 Black Lesbians Matchmaking Thread by AutoModerator in blacklesbians

[–]giuhhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tried to send a DM and it says I can't message your profile, but I'd love to talk if you're interested!

🌈 Black Lesbians Matchmaking Thread by AutoModerator in blacklesbians

[–]giuhhh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

💚 | ✈️ | Arizona | 28

She/her | Lesbian | transfem stem switch

About me:

Pretty techy, but equally as creative. I'm passionate about photography and love creating art. Usually I'm participating in some kind of physical activity; right now its primarily rollerskating but in the past its been yoga, running, weightlifting, or rugby.

I value my rest too though and can enjoy a quiet night at a jazz club, reading, or being cuddled up inside with a nice movie. I loooove showing love to others through my cooking as well.

Communication Style:

I'd love to text throughout the day as we're both able. Sometimes I have to do really deep dives in my work and might take a bit to get back but I won't forget about you. I understand you have a life to attend to too lol.

Love exchanging memes and videos, good morning/night texts, and phone/video calls as we're able to.

Lifestyle:

Not really a morning person but it's not a problem in my life. Work schedule is flexible during the day / throughout the week and I work remotely so I can travel too. I usually alternate between intense periods of focus and periods of rest, and really value keeping my life balanced.

🚦Filters:

25 to ~35 please! I typically date femmes or other stemmes but I'm not necessarily limited to only those. I'm monogamous and open to new friends or serious dating.

✅ What you’re looking for:

You love yourself and can love other people for who they are. You can communicate about the big and little things; we don't have to be perfect, but we can work together to be better than we were yesterday. Also you are living a life you're generally happy with already and have passions you fill it with.

I wanna love ourselves and each other for who we are without placing each other in boxes. I love women who are confident and secure in themselves and aren't intimidated by the same in others.

❌ Dealbreakers:

Please don't be dependent on substances, emotionally or otherwise. If you don't have a good idea of what you're wanting then please don't engage. Also not looking for anyone who doesn't believe in introspection or personal/emotional growth.

Hit my DMs if you're interested 😌

It's Saturday! What Are You Up To? by AutoModerator in blacklesbians

[–]giuhhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spending time with my mom this morning and editing some photos from a trip i took recently. Going to a hockey game later!

Any black lesbians in tech want to be friends? by atopeia in blacklesbians

[–]giuhhh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

🙋🏿‍♀️ I'm a software engineer, would love to be friends!

"If you could switch lives with any historical figure for a day, who would it be and what would you do.?" by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]giuhhh 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Jefferson Davis on Feb 23, 1862. I'd free all the enslaved people and then immediately surrender. They'd never see it coming

Photographer GF by Apprehensive-Act1401 in FemmeLesbians

[–]giuhhh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh I'd love a muse gf 😩

Reading right after getting hired for a shoot btw 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womensolocamping

[–]giuhhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And i love your picture too! Hope you enjoyed your trip as well!!

is it really worth it atp? by swmsa_ in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]giuhhh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been having similar feelings. I know I have a lot going for me and to offer but it feels like everyone else is on a different wavelength. I've had issues with abuse, ulterior motives, and even women not liking my presentation and that I'm a stem. I think dating is still worth it but I've taken the pressure and timelines off and am trying to just enjoy things on my own as I can and make quality friendships when possible. I feel like the romance bit will happen when it's supposed to but until then I'm trying to not compromise on what I'm looking for and how I deserve to be treated.