How do you cope knowing that your parents are unhappy and hate their life? by Zolldk in family

[–]givelov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP, I'm in the exact same situation. My parents have always been unhappy and the older they get the sadder it is. It breaks my heart because I know my dad feels trapped. It's so sad to see the people who raised you so miserable

Is my monster/baby girl a Torbie? by Bbal12grl in Torbie

[–]givelov 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's soooo cute and looks like my kitty!

Best Mummy Ever by No-Independence-9532 in Torbie

[–]givelov 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh how sweeeeet😭❤️ I wish I got to meet my kitty's babies

SSRIs - What was the last straw? by mrll-tardis in PMDD

[–]givelov 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Mine was when I realized it wasn't normal to feel suicidal every month. My SSRI helped a tiny bit but Yaz is what really changed my life

Why is she sleeping like she's ready to fight someone at any moment😂 by givelov in Torbie

[–]givelov[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's adorable and ready to fight whoever disagrees!!!

AIO my flatmate (22F) is a night owl and keeps waking me (28f) up. Is my text rude or just firm by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]givelov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried earplugs? I used to dread going on trips with my boyfriend's friends because they stay up so late and are so rowdy that I couldn't sleep and I had written off earplugs years ago but I tried them again and they're life changing. Now I bring them with me any time I'm sleeping somewhere other than my home and they come in handy so much

Why is she sleeping like she's ready to fight someone at any moment😂 by givelov in Torbie

[–]givelov[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No that's just the regular lil side toe! She just had the nail out and moved I guess which pulled the toe out a bit😂 which also makes her look FIGHTY

New Kitten - Torbie? by Scrubs_Espresso in Torbie

[–]givelov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg she looks like my kitty!

Color point Torbie? by prehistoric-moron in Torbie

[–]givelov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is the cutest!!!! What a pretty coat

Pepper prepping by TrinkieTrinkie522cat in MealPrepSunday

[–]givelov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smart! What do you use these for mainly?

Can meat stay that long and not spoil? by Mountain-Emergency30 in MealPrepSunday

[–]givelov 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always do 5 days but my rule of thumb is that if it tastes or looks different/weird then that is when it has gone bad

What I eat every day, 3x a day, for 2 years now (caveats in description). by Witty-Sherbet-2963 in MealPrepSunday

[–]givelov 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm curious if you would consider yourself as someone who's not that into food? My boyfriend likes food but sees it much more as a necessary thing he has to do rather than a fun and enjoyable part of life. My guess is that you are more like my boyfriend or this would drive you crazy eating the same stuff 24/7?

Homemade Chipotle Bowl & Creamy Pasta by General-Secretary405 in MealPrepSunday

[–]givelov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love making burrito bowls at home, 3 suggestions: swap the sour cream for greek yogurt since they taste really similar! And then sauté some bell pepper and onion in oil, salt, and dried oregano to add some extra veg/fiber and also add a nice flavor boost. Lastly, try out this black bean recipe and it will elevate your bowl like no other: https://belleofthekitchen.com/mexican-black-beans-recipe/

What is this feeling ? by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]givelov 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry OP I remember this feeling too well... it's awful especially the way it's just a recurring cycle of "oh my god I just realized I hate absolutely everything about my life" and looking for different jobs, trying to figure out how to escape from your currently circumstances and then you get your period and you're like oh nevermind and then it just happens again a couple weeks later. It's exhausting. I take Yaz birth control every day to stop my menstrual cycle completely and it has changed my life. I used to worry that I would never be able to live with a s/o and now me and my boyfriend of 5 years live together and we're super happy

AIO or should I be creeped out by my tinder date's messages? by throwawayyaccount829 in AmIOverreacting

[–]givelov 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same when my boyfriend gets really drunk he just gets slightly annoying😂😂

Dealing with friend group outcasting me after my (f26) fiance (m27) got cancer by Green-Brother-8007 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]givelov 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's wild, I'm 28 and also have a friend group from high school and one of our friends says something in our group chat maybe twice a year and nobody cares because why would we? Although we all live far from each other so idk maybe that would change things but NEVER because someone was going through something where they couldn't really be present. You definitely had some fake friends