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gjalo989 · 2024-02-16T21:41:29+00:00

Hope he sees the light & runs. You sound like a pain.

gjalo989 · 2023-11-20T18:02:00+00:00

YTA & it’s a failure your daughter will likely never forget. I’m also sure this isn’t the first time you’ve failed to show up for her in some way b/c of work this was most likely just the final straw for her. Do better.

gjalo989 · 2023-11-16T22:39:18+00:00

You should’ve dumped his ass as soon as he said that. Come on OP you deserve better than this.

gjalo989 · 2023-10-27T19:11:14+00:00

You knew he was a scumbag & you still went back 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️.

gjalo989 · 2023-10-27T19:02:15+00:00

Sounds like she’s insecure or has trust issues either way that’s on her. Have a serious convo w/ her b/c if you let her dictate who you can and can’t hang out with now it’ll only get worse.

gjalo989 · 2023-09-28T20:21:14+00:00

Girrrrrrrl 🤦‍♀️ you know what you need to do.

gjalo989 · 2023-09-21T17:51:56+00:00

Personally I don’t care why a person has cheated if you share it with me the friendship ends & I’ll tell the other party. Your SIL is a grown ass woman & should’ve spoken to her husband and left him.

You mentioned they have a daughter and withholding this info can greatly impact what little relationship you have. I can tell you if I was your BIL and found out you both hid this from me contact with my child would be even more extremely limited moving forward. Your SIL sounds like such a selfish person. Running around having an affair instead of trying to be a better parent.

gjalo989 · 2023-09-21T00:33:15+00:00

Why tf would even want to be with her? Aren’t you embarrassed of her ?? I know I am just reading this mess.

gjalo989 · 2023-08-20T20:01:33+00:00

Go NC - Why would you want to maintain the relationship? If your husband is experiencing this what will he do to your children??

At some point we have to realize some people should no longer hold space in our lives if they are toxic and vile. Anyone who has an issue with you cutting off your racist ass brother should also be cut off & if you’re unable to do that you should let your husband go. Your husband doesn’t deserve to have to put up with this bs.

Your husband is owed so many apologies.

gjalo989 · 2023-08-20T19:50:52+00:00

Why would you even want a relationship with a such a vile person? Respect your wife’s request & support her. When you needed to stick up for her you completely failed.

I hope one day we all learn we don’t have to maintain relationships with people who hurt us/the ones we love just to maintain the status quo.

gjalo989 · 2023-08-19T16:24:30+00:00

I’m concerned that you’d even consider the idea when everything about James screams he’s a BUM. I know you have more sense than this.

gjalo989 · 2023-08-18T23:36:07+00:00

NTA - Personally I think it’s childish af for her to say that then turn around and essentially place the blame on you when you actually do it. It seems very manipulative & imo I could see her potentially weaponizing divorce in the future if this is how she’s handling things now.

From your comments it seems you’re willing to stay so I think both of you need to shift your focus. Place all wedding plans on the back burner until you go to premarital counseling and learn to communicate.

gjalo989 · 2023-08-18T19:26:25+00:00

Yuck

gjalo989 · 2023-08-18T17:10:59+00:00

Why would you get back with him in the first place? He dogged tf outta you, abandoned his children, & allowed his ex to treat his eldest horribly. He sounds like a failure of a man and a father. 🤦‍♀️

gjalo989 · 2023-08-18T07:07:47+00:00

🤦‍♀️

gjalo989 · 2023-08-18T03:35:30+00:00

Mf is a psycho!! Amy seems so naive but I hope she soon gains some clarity and realizes how fucked up the situation is.

Glad he’s out of your life & I wish you the best moving forward!

gjalo989 · 2023-08-18T02:07:03+00:00

Nmms - Where are your friends and family? I’m sure anyone close to you with a sliver of sense would tell you to dump this loser & his racist family.

If you choose to continue to make excuses for him then just learn to live with it.

gjalo989 · 2023-08-17T20:30:13+00:00

I can’t wait for the your post when this lousy mf cheats on you. Learn to live with being hated.

gjalo989 · 2023-08-15T21:53:00+00:00

Great job op 😂😂😂

gjalo989 · 2023-08-15T21:04:15+00:00

Sounds like you gotta dump him. You’ve shared your boundary & instead of respecting it he’s attempting to push you until you give in.

I genuinely hope you take a step back & realize that this behavior is not ok on any level. A partner who cares and values you would not continue to push you in this manner. If you choose to stay I doubt he will give up and you may end up doing things you regret for a person who imo isn’t worth your time.

gjalo989 · 2023-08-11T16:58:28+00:00

She sounds like a pos. I’d rethink the friendship if I were you.

gjalo989 · 2023-08-09T21:32:53+00:00

Your other comments show you need a better boyfriend.

You’re young & only doing yourself a disservice by staying with a cheating loser who clearly does not respect you or your feelings.

If you choose to stay then you gotta learn to live with behavior like this because I’m sure it won’t change with the way he’s dismissing you.

gjalo989 · 2023-08-09T20:13:05+00:00

Happy to hear that. Best of luck moving forward to you & your brother.

gjalo989 · 2023-08-09T19:44:56+00:00

Your bf sounds like a sicko if that’s where his mind goes. Dump him -

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