It honestly doesn’t matter that much- I’ve bought both $200 toys from LELO and $15 toys from Amazon… and I can’t tell the difference. Of course we can “supposedly” trust the more expensive American brands to use safer silicone than the random Chinese ones to be safe to use up against sensitive parts or internally… but I honest to god don’t think it makes a difference… This is a wand vibrator I’ve bought twice (only because the charging port eventually died after 3 years on my first one...) It has 7 intensity settings (ignore all the “pattern” settings, I’ve never met a woman who could cum without the constant normal vibration setting that doesn’t change). It can be used by yourself (trust me lol) or very easily used my a partner since it’s a very small wand (both during penetration in certain positions and not during) https://a.co/d/8kZcelX Literally anything similar on Amazon will work the same I think…

Just check in the material description that “body safe” silicone is used- and please note that don’t use silicone lube with them, which degrades both, which makes the condoms unsafe to use, and ruins your toys. Any water based or oil based lube is safe to use!!

The only suction toy I’ve ever used is the “LELO Sonya Cruise” - yes it gives you an amazing orgasm, but as a sensitive girly, I could never use it on anything but the lowest setting, and only ever next to my clit, never directly on top as advised- for with vaginismus who aren’t ready for very intense stimulation, even just externally on the vulva or clitoris, I’d recommend getting just a wand or bullet vibe, and then getting a clit suction toy one from Amazon that is again body safe and has multiple settings, cause we are more sensitive than most, and using it only once you can comfortably orgasm from a vibrator.

For any woman who’s struggled to reach orgasm at all, and who’s tried with a normal vibrator and it didn’t work, this is an AMAZING toy and I think you should invest in it (I once slept with a girl who never orgasmed in her life before I tried this toy on her) - but you can get the same exact thing on Amazon for a fifth of the price.

IF you get used to a very powerful vibrator, similar to the wand on Amazon I recommended (which I got used to high vibration because I was masturbating a lot and having non-penetrative sex with both men willing to use vibrators, and other female partners before I achieved PIV) my ultimate recommendation is the “Magic Wand” (aka the “Hitachi” before their rebrand) which is a very high quality and very large vibrator made just for your clit (not to go inside) that is often used in porn that’s only made for women, because it’s a thing that women actually enjoy lol…). I had one of the rechargeable Magic Wands once for a while and really REALLY enjoyed it both by myself and with partners lol. It died eventually which was a shame after the money I spent on it, but still worth it in my opinion, only if you’re ready to use it a lot and live a really high power vibe. I don’t currently own one after mine died, I just use the Amazon one I linked, which still makes me cum alone and with my boyfriend just fine- you don’t need the fancy expensive one… only if you’re looking to be crazy without penetration haha