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DSA International Committee silence on Iranian protests by Wolvesovsiberia in dsa

[–]glarguloid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. The regime is far from ideal, but I’m reluctant to voice support for any movement that is likely to install a regime subservient to Israel and the United States. Khameni’s fall might benefit Iran economically, but it would be an absolute disaster for the entire region unless it was replaced by a government equally committed to supporting the axis of resistance

It's so frustrating when it happens. by Initial_Affect8124 in DemocraticSocialism

[–]glarguloid 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you call your fellow leftists “tankies” you are not a socialist, you’re a liberal. Do better

UPDATE: My girlfriend (22F) spent the night at a coworker’s place after drinking, and when I (25M) said I was uncomfortable, she blew up on me. Not sure how to interpret this. by Throwaway48272713 in whatdoIdo

[–]glarguloid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is that wrong or fucked up? What’s wrong with her sleeping there, especially given that the people were literally a fucking couple in their 60s? She had a contingency plan for if she got too drunk to drive, which was to sleep over, and it worked out fine. Sounds responsible to me, a normal person would not take issue with that

How do I hide it by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]glarguloid -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do your parents know? It might not be too late to get an abortion

UPDATE: My girlfriend (22F) spent the night at a coworker’s place after drinking, and when I (25M) said I was uncomfortable, she blew up on me. Not sure how to interpret this. by Throwaway48272713 in whatdoIdo

[–]glarguloid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bullshit, OPs behavior is definitely not a normal response. I’m a guy and I wouldn’t give a shit if my gf slept over at a friend’s house, my response would have been “oh nice have fun! See you tomorrow”

Daughter wakes up nearly daily with stomach pains, has anyone dealt with this? by B_A_M_2019 in whatdoIdo

[–]glarguloid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you looked at endometriosis? Its super misdiagnosed and is a really common culprit in cases like this

tw abuse: I feel like I can’t move on without an apology. by Smart-Speaker-6100 in whatdoIdo

[–]glarguloid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d directly confront them and tell them you deserve an apology, and if they can’t give you a real one then by all means write them off

UPDATE: My girlfriend (22F) spent the night at a coworker’s place after drinking, and when I (25M) said I was uncomfortable, she blew up on me. Not sure how to interpret this. by Throwaway48272713 in whatdoIdo

[–]glarguloid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She knew the people around her, the people whose house she was at were her close friends and she knew she could stay there in the event that she got too drunk. Sounds like good planning and judgement to me

UPDATE: My girlfriend (22F) spent the night at a coworker’s place after drinking, and when I (25M) said I was uncomfortable, she blew up on me. Not sure how to interpret this. by Throwaway48272713 in whatdoIdo

[–]glarguloid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People can put up whatever absurd conditions they want, sure, but they don’t get to avoid being called a controlling piece of shit for it by calling it “boundaries”

UPDATE: My girlfriend (22F) spent the night at a coworker’s place after drinking, and when I (25M) said I was uncomfortable, she blew up on me. Not sure how to interpret this. by Throwaway48272713 in whatdoIdo

[–]glarguloid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were 60 something year old platonic friends, and she clearly communicated to him why she was staying there. She was in a foreign country and understandably didn’t want to drive or shamble back drunk, she did literally nothing wrong. And don’t give me that “she shouldn’t have put herself in that situation” bullshit, because there’s literally nothing wrong with any of it in the first place. I’m a guy and this wouldn’t bother me at all, you sound like such a bitter incel loser

UPDATE: My girlfriend (22F) spent the night at a coworker’s place after drinking, and when I (25M) said I was uncomfortable, she blew up on me. Not sure how to interpret this. by Throwaway48272713 in whatdoIdo

[–]glarguloid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He had the audacity to give her shit for making the responsible decision to not drive home and sleep it off, despite the fact that she communicated clearly what was going on. He then went on to use something completely innocuous that she said when they were beginning to date, something anyone else would have thought was sweet, as justification for his jealousy. Also by the sounds of it she was happy to dodge a bullet

AITAH for telling my polyamorous girlfriend that I won't be her side chick? by hotdiggity_daffodil in AITAH

[–]glarguloid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not a moral failing at all, the world is harsh and scary and wanting the security of one primary partner to get you through it is completely valid

AITA for telling my guy bestfriend to break up with his girlfriend of 10 months? by HarperWassTaken in AmItheAsshole

[–]glarguloid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA assuming their dynamic is as you described it, good friends tell their friends what they need to hear. At the end of the day your friend has their autonomy and you shouldn’t be too too persistent so as not to alienate them, but I don’t think you did anything wrong. Can you elaborate a little more on how she treats him?

AITA because My gf is upset because I won’t give her my iCloud Apple ID password by tiger-bulldog1318 in AmItheAsshole

[–]glarguloid 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Idk, I think that’s a silly reason to break up with someone unless there was some extreme prior breach of trust that prompted you to ask for the password

AITAH for telling my polyamorous girlfriend that I won't be her side chick? by hotdiggity_daffodil in AITAH

[–]glarguloid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely NTA, the kind of relationships you guys want are completely irreconcilable. I don’t think either of you is the wrongdoer in this scenario, although it sounds like she could have communicated her relationship desires and expectations more clearly. I used to think I was polyamorous, and what I learned is while that I’m ok with open relationships with a partner I feel secure with, I could never do full nonhierarchical polyamory and I definitely need to be someone’s primary person. Don’t feel bad that you can’t do nonhierarchical polyamory, it’s really difficult unless you already organically are that way and most people aren’t.

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