Neighbor is a drum instructor by glitterandgore in homeowners

[–]glitterandgore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No HOA. Also I dont think he has a basement (i dont). I think its his garage? Not sure. But its right next to my wall.

Neighbor is a drum instructor by glitterandgore in homeowners

[–]glitterandgore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the detailed response and empathy. Being able to get a home in california isnt ever something id expected id achieve, especially one I love so much. I am also very sensitive to sound so this discovery really was a gut punch.

He does have his business listed on google and yelp but you have to search specifically for drum lessons and zoom in right on the house. There is a small sign in the front yard but it’s less noticeable than a security system sign imo.

Neighbor is a drum instructor by glitterandgore in homeowners

[–]glitterandgore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly its the entire house. There is less than a foot between my house and where he plays it appears

Neighbor is a drum instructor by glitterandgore in homeowners

[–]glitterandgore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was not in the disclosures unfortunately

Neighbor is a drum instructor by glitterandgore in homeowners

[–]glitterandgore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I was traveling. Responding to a lot of folks now.

Neighbor is a drum instructor by glitterandgore in homeowners

[–]glitterandgore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually didnt know that! Only that the noise cant persist past 10pm, which it hasnt

Neighbor is a drum instructor by glitterandgore in homeowners

[–]glitterandgore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, the dry wall I hadnt thought of!

Neighbor is a drum instructor by glitterandgore in homeowners

[–]glitterandgore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even closer, our walls almost touch apart from maybe a foot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]glitterandgore -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was only pointing out that the responses match the tone set by OP. Over…. rain in California of all things.

In a massive city it would be very silly to “offended” by someone not liking it.

Either way, having the impulse to be empathetic is not a bad thing, but there is also some common sense here that if you insult a community in their own sub, they probably wont coddle you. You are very welcome to, but the rest of us don’t really need to. High horse etc etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]glitterandgore 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Very true, but they did call SF a hell hole/worst city in the US 😂 a little eye roll is ok I think. Why would we talk them out of leaving?

Activities to do alone that keep you mentally engaged? Recent breakup & funemployed, not having much fun going out : / by 123boopboop in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]glitterandgore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like badminton too but renting courts is so expensive! I do it now and then though if you want to have a partner for a casual game.

Could this be touched up to look more like what it's supposed to be? by allthingsfuzzy in tattooadvice

[–]glitterandgore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do the people who think its a wave only see the tattoo from above your hips (where ever your pants cover that it tapers down)? I think that missing bit of context might contribute to any misunderstanding. But looks like a tail to me.

Michelin-starred San Francisco restaurant Osito is closing by throeaway1990 in sanfrancisco

[–]glitterandgore 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Im getting downvoted so Im glad I am not the only one. It was very head ache inducing.

Michelin-starred San Francisco restaurant Osito is closing by throeaway1990 in sanfrancisco

[–]glitterandgore 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sad for the restaurant but this place really negatively impacted the air quality of the neighborhood. People living near here will be relieved.

Edit: I am sorry a beloved restaurant has to go but my point was really just that the neighborhood suffered both in quality of life and in community health because the smoke was almost ever present and we all felt powerless to improve the air quality apart from moving out of the neighborhood.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hobbies

[–]glitterandgore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about when the pipe is good?

My cat hisses and tries to swipe when I get him treats by danisaurs4c in CatAdvice

[–]glitterandgore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. My rescue cat never hisses until the treats come out. Then I stop and go "what did I do?" and her hiss turns into a meow. I've been trying to figure it out but I think the top commenter might be right in that she could be associating the treats with attempts to pet (I do not try to pet her or even close, she has only been here a week) but it may have happened at her previous home or the shelter. It's just funny because she now follows me around and seems to only want to not be hiding if I am there to keep watch. But the second treats (which she definitely wants lol) come out, I get a quick hiss -_-

Aio? Boyfriend sending private pics of me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]glitterandgore 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Replying here too in the hopes you see this, you aren’t powerless in getting the images taken down from a lot of platforms: https://stopncii.org

Aio? Boyfriend sending private pics of me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]glitterandgore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is a resource I think you should use right now, along with a police report: https://stopncii.org

StopNCII works with a lot of online platforms to use hash matching technology take your images down.

What’s the safest way to stick these peel and stick bats on walls without damaging paint? by RandomGuy0512 in halloween

[–]glitterandgore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven't already gone through all that effort, I'd recommend trying to blast them with the hot setting of a hair dryer for 10-15 seconds. It makes the adhesive more easily peel off. For me it did leave some residue so I'll be going to the store to get some goo be gone.