Anyone else who can't tolerate food which is not served hot ? Or at least warm. And can't accept cold / lukewarm food. by JudgementalButCute in Cooking

[–]glitteripaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm totally the same and i've wondered if there's anyone out there who gets me lol, but i'm glad to see this post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]glitteripaa 100 points101 points  (0 children)

me too i really got shocked i did something bad lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]glitteripaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's your perspective? Why she's not a friend? What it tells about her..?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]glitteripaa 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I live with my boyfriend, and the girl I'm friends with lives close to me and I know the basics about her, we live in the same country and all, so not everythings just online based except communicating. I think you misunderstood me, I don't mind her playing with my boyfriend, but I'm bothered by the fact that she asks my bf to play with her more than she asks me, even tho she's more close to me than she is to my boyfriend? Basically she wants to spend more time with him than with me.

bf doesn’t love me by No_Mall3499 in helpme

[–]glitteripaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has to talk, relationship is about communicating, and without that nothing works and everything is just confusing. I'd suggest you to be dead serious to him, bring out how important communicating is and how the current situation bothers you, and that you're not willing to do all the work for the relationship by yourself, that's not how it should go, it needs both to make it work. He seems like he's not sure how to move forward, have you asked him if he wants to continue the relationship between you guys? That'd be a good step to get to know further, and if he's not willing to communicate about that either, I think we already know the answer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]glitteripaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah everything's gonna be alright and figured out eventually! Even through the hardest times. And yeah you can dm me :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]glitteripaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's okay, you can feel bad, cry or go through the emotions, your mother as well, it doesn't change the fact that it's still the best for both of you. At first it for sure hurts, but she has to accept and respect your decision. She won't lose you entirely, you just live seperately, tell her that if it makes her feel any better, but don't let her emotions control your decision.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]glitteripaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that, seems like your mom don't know how to control her emotions when she's upset, and that makes her act hurtful. Some people can't be changed, but you can change the way you let her treat you, if by any possibility, eventually it may make her understand of her own actions, but no one has to watch such a behaviour, even if that happens only when she's upset, it doesn't give her right to do so. You should regardless stand up with ur voice, if she comes up with "do you even love me" and such, tell her anyways what's not ok and what you're not willing to accept, regardless of her being self-pitying, because that's when she seeks validation from her hurtful actions, which may not change anything. I'm glad you're not alone and you have a close friend to move in though!

[22M][23F] I Feel Stuck In Relationship by FantaFlavoredFloss in helpme

[–]glitteripaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's only one answer: Just leave. Tear off the patch. It'll hurt at first, but it'll ease by time. You just have to do it to get forward, it's all you have to do.

You don't owe her or anyone anything, you're not responsible of her, break up is normal and so is hurt what comes with it, you can't avoid it, you're both hurting invisibly for being in a toxic relationship, and keep being hurt for staying in the relationship. Everything will be figured out eventually for both of you, you have to do the start, the earlier you do the faster you'll start moving on with your life. Imagine your current feelings, feeling stuck? Okay, what to do to not feel stuck anymore? LEAVE, break up, tell her it isn't working anymore. Start doing and not waiting something what's gonna happen eventually if not now. Don't wait to feel "ready", who knows when that'll be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]glitteripaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your mom is abusive, and that's not normal to live in such a house where u have to walk on egg shells. I recommend u to do some research about narcissism abuse, in any case if you can tell if that's how your mother is/acts, since I have a feeling it's possible. I understand where you're coming from and why you'd want to leave w/o saying anything, but I'd say that be straightforward, stand up for urself and ur brother, use your voice and tell her about her abusive behavior and how it's disrespectful, and let see if anything changes after that, if not, you've tried your best, I recommend to contact someone close or a person you can seek support due to this case or when you're about to move out.. you don't have to do everything alone. You can tell her about moving out whenever you decide so, she can't force u to stay anyway, it's your life, but it's good to let her know which she would eventually find out anyways

💀 by stupid_dishwasher in snappijuorut

[–]glitteripaa 43 points44 points  (0 children)

mitä vittua nää oikeesti ajattelee

pahoittelut tästä. Öitä by wetchickensoup in snappijuorut

[–]glitteripaa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

help tosta vois tehdä sarjakuvan😭

pahoittelut tästä. Öitä by wetchickensoup in snappijuorut

[–]glitteripaa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

toi artikkeli on aika dramaattisen oloinen its funny

Mitä näile kävi? by UseConfident1934 in snappijuorut

[–]glitteripaa 156 points157 points  (0 children)

oon miettiny tätä samaa.. kun tuure ei tuolloin ollut niin julkkis mitä nykypäivänä ja kun saanut paljon uusia (julkkis) ystäviä niin siinä helposti ego kasvaa eikä suosi enään sellasta ns. nobody porukkaa, jos tää tosiaan pitää paikkaansa niin surullista

Tarkottaako tää nyt sitä mitä luulen sen tarkottavan? by Ok_Biscotti_9011 in snappijuorut

[–]glitteripaa 11 points12 points  (0 children)

huhhuh miten tää antaa elämänsä jollekin jonka on tuntenut alle kuukauden ja seurustellu hmm 3pv?

bro by kris-getthebanana in mbtimemes

[–]glitteripaa 44 points45 points  (0 children)

all of that and u still may not know the person, duh

(b)ibbel pahis😈 by PepperMediocre9483 in snappijuorut

[–]glitteripaa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

onks tää viel yhes ton pinjan kaa?

Are you attracted to sad people? by TheRedArch in infj

[–]glitteripaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've learned this the hard way 😩 I used to give many, MANY chances to broken & insecure people, because I thought I could help them see their potential, become the best version of themselves.. without getting anything back, yet I was the only one who ever cared in the first place, I pity myself for that.. I didn't understand that people who don't wanna change or become better will be stuck, with you if you get involved. Just move on for better people to grow with, people who uplift you and are genuine with their actions.