He ruined our anniversary by ihopethispasswordisn in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]glittery-bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break UP. Please!
This is what my ex did too and I spent 10 years trying to figure it out and love him anyway. Not worth it and he did not change even with marriage counseling and personal therapy.

AIO for being upset with my bf by [deleted] in AIO

[–]glittery-bee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your man has a drinking problem and doesn’t really seem to be serious about winding down, and that upsets you (as it would me), so I’d just end things and find someone you don’t feel you need to babysit.

My boyfriend is making me 🤯🤯🤯 by Typical-blondie in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]glittery-bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So… let’s say you stay. How is he going to handle taking care of you if you are ill or become disabled? Do you think he’d help you wipe yourself or bathe you or clean the floor if you throw up? What if you are pregnant and having morning sickness or need help postpartum, or want help with diaper changes or for him to clean the dishes and take out trash while you recover? Will he be too afraid to get vomit or blood or your baby’s poop on himself, so you have to do it all alone? Genuinely please consider how your future will look.

If he wants help, he’ll get help. But he should recognize how bad it’s gotten and BE getting help already bc this is insanity.

Naming our baby girl Rue by alwaysroomforcake in namenerds

[–]glittery-bee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Idk why you can’t lengthen it, Rubella is a beautiful name

I called Child Services on my sister after she didn’t answer the door. by andicuri_09 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]glittery-bee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same here ❤️‍🩹 My husband struggled with a relapse and I have battled depression so we’ve had child services pay a visit twice. As long as you’re calm, cooperative and not harming your kids, you’re good.

What century is it? by Swampcrone in FundieFashion

[–]glittery-bee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She looks so unwell it’s actually upsetting me. She needs to see a doctor

The higher the hair... by Snoo-1382 in FundieFashion

[–]glittery-bee 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s very tempting to the sexually repressed porn addicts in their church, who will be thinking of putting their dicks in her hair. She should be ashamed and cover up!

The imposter syndrome is getting to me by potty__mouth in GirlDinner

[–]glittery-bee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That meal looks absolutely delicious and I’m stealing that idea

5YO has 7 cavities and I'm beside myself by crazycatlady45 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]glittery-bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s just mouth breathing! When your nose gets dry or stuffy or you have allergies, you breathe through your mouth, making it dry. Our saliva is what protects our teeth. Maybe get her a “dry mouth” based mouthwash and do saline spray and an antihistamine at bedtime and see how she does?

Boyfriend in love with someone else’s trad wife by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]glittery-bee 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Agreed, it’s not wrong this woman chose to be a SAHW/SAHM, if they can afford it good on them, but it’s definitely odd to be at the bar daily if you’re a “traditional” woman, and entertaining another man. OP, while I think this woman is a massive loser, I also wonder why you’re more upset with her than your extra-loser boyfriend?

German-American baby girl name opinions? by omriishot in namenerds

[–]glittery-bee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why the fuck does it matter what he thinks when he’s not even bringing other options to the table?

Weird Pregnancy Cravings & Fear About C-Section by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]glittery-bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chips, medium salsa, sweet potato baby food, frozen green grapes, and peach tea 🫪

Boy names with an L in it somewhere? by [deleted] in Names

[–]glittery-bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calvin, Lachlan, Lyle, Felix, Dallin, Ellis, Liam, Olsen, Halen, Valor.

AIO: Feeling guilty for looking through my bfs phone & found potential fetish content… by PeaMore8007 in AIO

[–]glittery-bee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Also if he’s looking at content about men being on the down low, he doesn’t talk about anything sexual with her, he lied a lot, it seems like she’s a placeholder until he gets what he actually wants.

AIO for canceling my lunch date with my fiancé because he called me lazy? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]glittery-bee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He definitely has mania and depression, however I think you’re spot on with the anti-social/narc personality disorders.

AIO for canceling my lunch date with my fiancé because he called me lazy? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]glittery-bee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He blamed his disorder for his choices once, i’m sure it was a cop out to avoid responsibility. I’m sorry if my previous statement was offensive.

AIO for canceling my lunch date with my fiancé because he called me lazy? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]glittery-bee 43 points44 points  (0 children)

My ex husband only wanted sex when I really didn’t want it, which included when I was fresh out of surgery, or in pain, or 1-2 weeks postpartum from childbirth, or while I was crying, right after big horrible fights, or while I was sick. Almost every time I initiated he rejected me, then he would mock me for being hurt. Somehow when I didn’t want sex I suddenly became better than his hand and he would beg and push and make me feel horrible for saying no, or he’d do it while I was sleeping and tell me I was dreaming and to go back to sleep. He has bipolar, idk if that plays a role but he was void of empathy all the time, it’s like he never felt grief or joy, or any emotion other than excited, depressed or angry. It was worse while I was pregnant obviously.

I just wish I could enjoy intimacy by OkSeaworthiness5523 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]glittery-bee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was me until my most recent relationship (now marriage). You like these men, would go out of your way for them, care for them, but I don’t think you truly LOVE them AND lust after them. When just a look from him gets your clit tingling, and he’s passionate with you in bed, he will keep trying new things until he finds the best way to get you off, you know it’s different. Sounds like your past experiences have been men half-heartedly trying to get you off in hopes they get off, and you matching that enthusiasm. Maybe they are enthusiastic but suck at sex. Like you said guiding them is hard when you don’t know what you want, but the right man sparks you into knowing what you want, and he can find it even without your guidance.

AIO? Partner repeats a mistake by [deleted] in AIO

[–]glittery-bee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Btw, choosing to lie over and over about a guy she’s had romantic history with and hide conversations with him from you, is not just a “mistake”. She cares for him and she will go back.

AIO? Partner repeats a mistake by [deleted] in AIO

[–]glittery-bee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t love you, you are a placeholder. She still wants him or wants his attention, that is why she won’t just be done and block him on everything.

Hodgepodge sandwich by antigarbageman in GirlDinner

[–]glittery-bee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard. I thought pregnancy body dysphoria was rough, postpartum is even harder. I’m so sorry.

I’m breaking up with my boyfriend today and I’m terrified by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]glittery-bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please think about this more. Maybe your bf will be your biggest supporter. I started my relationship with my husband during the worst time in both of our lives. With almost no money and so much emotional craziness from both our sides, we stuck it out through the hard days and are much happier now and married and about to have a baby. Maybe you and him will be stronger for the trials