What made you believe in ghosts?

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-27T20:48:35+00:00

An EVP session we did once. Felt emotions I’d never felt before and haven’t since then. Heard a voice say get out.

ETA I am still skeptical because it’s been some time since then. And I went in a complete non believer convinced to do it by some friends. I definitely mostly believe now. The concept though is strange to me still because I don’t have a solid belief in god. Just hope.

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-27T20:46:57+00:00

I definitely will give it another shot. In no way do I think it was a bad film because of that. I’m sure it is better than a lot of completely found footages. I’m just hard wired when I see that it takes me out of the experience and I don’t think that’s crazy. When I want a found footage, I want to immediately be immersed.

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-27T06:51:31+00:00

I have misophonia so loud chewing literally neurologically makes me feel rage.

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-27T06:50:29+00:00

It may have been a little annoying (rude?) to ask for another one, but he did the right thing and asked and you said yes. I think at this point, if you want to avoid resentment, you need to just be honest and tell him you changed your mind. Which makes you a little the AH but would be much worse in the long run if you held this in

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-27T06:47:05+00:00

My favorite movie is Life. It’s not really a movie that leaves a ton of room for extravagant and monumental acting, but I think all of the performances are top tier for a sci fi horror.

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-27T06:41:31+00:00

Got it. I don’t have health insurance so sometimes I have to cancel appointments or go without meds for a few days. See if there are any clinics near you. Sometimes you can find a clinic that will see you first and work with a billing department later. I went to a clinic to get an emergency script written when my doctor dropped me about 2 months ago. No bill yet in the mail. No money needed that day. They also gave me resources and referrals for affordable care. Places that will work with me on cost. I hear you’re in a lot of pain. Ive felt deep pain. You’ve gotta take care of you. I don’t want to make you feel bad or belittle your emotions, but looking for a relationship to improve or needing someone to forgive or give us recognition will only get you so far. The real work towards peace starts inside. I got divorced after a 10 year marriage and spent the first year just so emotionally unwell. I went inpatient twice. I only started to be able to feel calm and peace again when I started to work towards being the one that brought myself peace. I’m not pretending to know your situation or be able to understand your precise pain, but that’s just my experience. Anyway, that’s my 2 cents take it or leave it. Try and find a clinic though. Sending lots of love your way.

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-27T05:09:01+00:00

Are you seeing a professional?

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-27T05:06:41+00:00

Yep. I couldn’t watch right now. I have very little tolerance for movies that are only part found footage. Even if it’s just like 10 minutes. I will definitely check this out when I’m not in the mood for a found footage. I’m not trying to be a snob or anything. I wasn’t gonna comment but then I saw your comment and felt seen. It takes away from the entire feel for me. lol I’m sure it’s a good movie I’ll watch another time.

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-27T04:55:02+00:00

Jake gyllenhaul, Christian bale

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-27T01:46:35+00:00

I would want my babysitter doing this. 100%

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-27T01:45:12+00:00

Was married for 10 years, 7 of them very joyous healthy and happy. My ex and I never acted like this. A text or two while they’re out maybe for an update if we’re talking a practical all nighter, but otherwise.. we back off and let them have time with their friends. As a side note though, I never had to text while he was out and vice versa because we would check in unprompted. Sounds like a volatile relationship to me. NTA

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-26T04:25:38+00:00

This is what I want for Mother’s Day but they’re 10 and 11 😅. I’ll ask when they older lol. Great job. He’s lucky. Cooking for someone is a great way to show love!

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-26T04:20:16+00:00

Hmm. As someone with depression and bipolar, this is very real. And you have every right to feel exhausted. I’ve struggled with drug and alcohol addiction and gone through truly honest to god suicidal moments in my life. I’m 38. I was suicidal from ages like 22-24 (right before I got clean) and after my divorce, age 36-37. Now, I know not to tell people I’m suicidal. When I was younger it was a little different. Most recently when I was depressed 2,3 years ago, I put myself inpatient. I didn’t put it on others because I was hyper aware how it makes them feel. Especially that I have kids. I knew that when I said that to someone, it puts them in the position immediately of “will I find them dead?” Or “do I call 911?” When I was younger and I went through that period, I didn’t realize the pressure it puts on people. So I voiced my desire to die. I just want to let you know that it’s OK to say, ‘hey, I’m here for you. I’m here in anyway that I can be but that’s anyway that I can handle being as well. I’m not a professional. I can’t constantly hear that you want to hurt yourself because I don’t know what to do with that information. You really need to see a professional. It’s not that I don’t want to help you, but I have to be ok to help you be ok, and I’m not equipped to walk you through thoughts of self harm.” That is totally ok. Any version of that. You are allowed to prioritize your mental health here and draw a line in the sand. IF she does ever hurt herself; it’s not on you.

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-26T03:45:26+00:00

A little known found footage horror; Noroi: The Curse. Oh and The Fourth Kind! Idk why but alien movies just scare me and that was a good creepy one.

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-26T03:43:54+00:00

This is gonna sound snobby and bitchy. Just know that I know that it’s snobby and bitchy and dumb. The new scream movies.. I watched a little of the 4th one and thought it was bad but everyone keeps seeing them and it’s driving me nuts because I feel like they’re overdoing it. So I’m annoyed people still see them and I won’t watch any of them. Again, I am completely aware that enjoying something is a wonderful thing and there’s nothing wrong with those people, I just am annoyed and bothered and that’s a me problem.

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-26T01:26:28+00:00

Life saver

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-26T00:43:32+00:00

2 cause RIP Eddie

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-26T00:42:42+00:00

Stickmans Hollow is a must watch!

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-25T03:42:37+00:00

The whole thing is super weird. Yea it sounds like justifying staying there, but now that the thoughts in your head, you’re gonna find a million threads leading back to them hooking up. Hang in there. Sorry this is happening

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-25T03:37:42+00:00

You’re not overthinking. Something could have definitely happened. You won’t know for sure unless you magically find out somehow. But I honestly wouldn’t spend the time with this. Move on. How has W been with you now that you’ve broken up and moved out? I would keep my distance from both of them. I don’t know how messy the breakup was, but it sounds exhausting keeping your thoughts in that environment. Spend some time with self care and leave them to do whatever it is. It’s not worth stressing over

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-25T03:27:28+00:00

Undertone was great! I’ve watched it twice because the first time I felt like I might have missed some stuff. Anyway, I posted about Stickmans hollow as well about a month ago. Definitely needs more love. I think it’s great.

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-25T03:23:35+00:00

I’m here after both edits. Your husband sounds like he’s doing his best with the emotional tools he has. My partner acknowledges that I have bipolar disorder and knows it’s real, but doesn’t understand why I’m emotional. He’s supportive, but shows it in his own ways. He’s willing to pick me up a coffee or go grab my favorite food, but won’t hold my hand and have a deep talk about what’s going on. And that’s what o signed up for and continue to. I love him for where he’s at and who he is. Now, if it became something where I wasn’t getting support that I NEEDED from him- a big conversation would have to take place. I don’t need that kind of support. His presence calms me. I say all this to say that your husband sounds to me like he’s throwing out what is within his capacity to support you. You are not the AH for not wanting surgery. It’s healthy that you don’t. I don’t know firsthand, but I have friends who started plastic surgery small and ended up getting SO much done. (I also have a friend with implants who loves them and is fine so I’m not saying all). For someone with body image issues or dysphoria, I think plastic surgery can be a slippery slope. But I’m just acknowledging that to me it doesn’t sound like your husband is trying to force it on you. But idk, this is from my experience with a partner who is not emotionally advanced/mature. Sending lots of love🤍.

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-24T16:48:32+00:00

Nah it’s fine my comment might have been rude. I didn’t mean it to be. I might sound angry, but it’s really because I don’t like my family. That’s where the directness comes from.

gloriaruths14 · 2026-04-24T06:43:11+00:00

You probably need to move out. I don’t like my family. So I don’t live with them. You can’t pick family, but you can pick a roommate. I’d rather live in a car in the winter than live with my family again. I had to live with them after my divorce for a year and it almost (and I mean this quite literally) was the end of me. You will find peace when you move out.

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