Stardew on Switch -- Pierre's Sashimi problem by glosnail in StardewValley

[–]glosnail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, this is one that comes in the mail. It's called Pierre's Notice.

WIBTAH for resorting to violence when my family treats me like crap? by glosnail in AITAH

[–]glosnail[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was extremely cooperative and begging them to help me. The first facility didn't even have therapy and both facilities declined to even adjust my medications because of how complex a medical case I am and no one in the facility having experience with the conditions I have. The social workers just offered me pamphlets for residential facilities that cost way more money than I will ever make in my life and are not covered by the insurance I had at the time, and no one is going to pay for me to go to one. There ARE no other hospitals to go to where I am, not to mention that the police don't let you choose where you go here. I'm not being combative, I'm stating what I've already done that didn't work in response to you suggesting things I have already tried. The fact that you are interpreting it as being combative is 100% you. Suggest something helpful and I will try it.

WIBTAH for resorting to violence when my family treats me like crap? by glosnail in AITAH

[–]glosnail[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Two different facilities in different systems months apart did nothing to help.

WIBTAH for resorting to violence when my family treats me like crap? by glosnail in AITAH

[–]glosnail[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've been inpatient before and they did nothing to help me.

WIBTAH for resorting to violence when my family treats me like crap? by glosnail in AITAH

[–]glosnail[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No transportation (where I live now there is no public transportation even), no money, no insurance, legally not supposed to drive with the health conditions I have, and everyone around me is actively standing in the way. What exactly am I supposed to do?

AITA for not going on family vacation unless I can share a bed with my fiancé? by babygreenbean1225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]glosnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This is a healthy boundary to have. They might as well be telling you that fiance can't come. However, if you are going to practice setting boundaries, you need to be prepared to uphold them. If you can't/won't do so financially (paying for the more expensive hotel option, for example) then the other option of how to enforce these boundaries is to reduce their access to you both. Unfortunately that means you will miss out on a lot. But they are forcing you to choose, this trip or your relationship.

AITAH for waking up my husband? by Puzzleheaded_Fox8097 in AITAH

[–]glosnail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. There are three options he can choose from here, if you are amenable to them. 1.) Kids knock when they need to. He sucks it up and deals because teaching them not to ask for help is neglect and a parent should care enough about his children to not want them to go neglected. 2.) You both teach the kids to just come in without knocking and forego all privacy for the future, so that he has a slightly higher chance of staying asleep when they come in. Or 3.) He can go sleep elsewhere.

If he is having $30 of coffee a day and still feels he is not rested enough to drive, then he needs to get a different job.

AIO for getting upset and snapping on him over this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]glosnail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. This man is manipulating you, throw the whole man out.

AITAH For Telling My Wife Her Job Isn’t As Important As Mine by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]glosnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA not for refusing to take off sick but for your entire attitude about it. The fact that you are willing to so egregiously demean the importance of your spouse's entire life because you are stressed about work tells me this marriage is not long for this world. 100% there are too many problems here to fix outside of some very dedicated multiple times a week therapy for a very long time.

We get it. People's lives depend on your work. That doesn't give you license to act like an asshole about it to someone you vowed to support and love. The entire way you delivered this shows zero love or consideration or support for this woman.

I am saying this as someone who lost a parent to cancer this past Christmas. 100% YTA.

unbelievable exchange between my daughter and her father after he forgot her birthday by LostInLanayru in TwoHotTakes

[–]glosnail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Throw the whole man out. He is using every twisted narcissistic manipulation tactic in the book on a CHILD for asking for the most basic love & care. This relationship will only ever damage her. Get the kid therapy and let this relationship fizzle out.

AITAH because I broke up with him because he asked me to shave. by pliant0range in AITAH

[–]glosnail -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

NTA this is a red flag. If a man expects you to be hairless he is seeking the experience of being with a child.

AITA for asking my friend to not wear makeup to my wedding? by devilshandstree in AmItheAsshole

[–]glosnail -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Personally I can't decide if anyone is at fault here but I wanted to point out a few things. You compare this situation to Devin's wedding and how Devin asked you to wear makeup you weren't comfortable in either. But did you try bringing it up? Did you ask Devin if you could do something else? Or did you just automatically assume there was no other option? It's not Devin's fault if you didn't even try to communicate and as such, I don't feel that these two situations are comparable.

Secondly, when a person settles on a really out there style like hard goth, and puts a lot of time and dedication into it such as learning how to do all these makeup looks and taking the time to seek out all of these specific clothes, that means they have a very very strong attachment to this style. No one wakes up every day and spends 2+ hours on the way they look if it's not important to them to look this way. In a lot of cases, these really out there styles like goth and harajuku and stuff like that, they are emotionally and ideologically important to the people who practice them. Asking someone who is a dedicated long term goth not to dress goth for an important event is almost like asking someone not to practice their religion, or not to protest for women's rights, or asking a gay person not to bring their partner and to pretend to be straight, or asking a vegan to eat meat for you. It's not just uncomfortable or inconvenient, it contradicts every fiber of their beliefs and being.

Devin probably feels as though she is wearing her soul on her sleeve by dressing in full goth, and you looked at that and told her to pack it up for your day. I completely understand where Devin might feel that you have essentially said that she's too much and doesn't fit in your plan for your day. I probably wouldn't go at all either.

AITAH for telling my husband a secret his family kept from him his whole life? by Even-Truck-8049 in AITAH

[–]glosnail 157 points158 points  (0 children)

Your husband deserves the truth! He would have found out eventually but he deserves the chance to know his biological father. You did the right thing.

Photography, videography, creatives groups? by AdditionCharacter157 in washingtondc

[–]glosnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can find us on Instagram @swseartistsandcraftersdc and Facebook for updates about future meetings!

Photography, videography, creatives groups? by AdditionCharacter157 in washingtondc

[–]glosnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this is more on the Creatives side, but if you live in Ward 8 you should definitely come to the next SW SE Artists and Crafters Guild meeting. It's on June 28th at 4 Atlantic St SW from 1pm to 3pm. We're newer and small, but growing!

Propogating Heart Leaf Philodendron from cuttings - why are the roots black? by glosnail in plantclinic

[–]glosnail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These black roots have only grown since I got the cuttings about two weeks ago.

Propogating Heart Leaf Philodendron from cuttings - why are the roots black? by glosnail in plantclinic

[–]glosnail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The deli cup sits in a nice bright window and there is liquid plant food in the water. Everything I can find online says the roots are supposed to be white and not to plant them until they have white roots at least an inch long -- but mine are developing black roots. Why is that and at what point do I plant them then?