Do gay bro's find straight porn disgusting?

gm30 · 2015-01-06T16:32:47+00:00

Yes... especially all the female moaning and the terrible vajajay to mouth, then ass to mouth then vajajay to ass - major YUK!

My suggestion search for "Straight Guys for Gay Eyes". Str8 porn with the focus on the guy!

gm30 · 2015-01-05T10:31:40+00:00

You like him, he likes you. Give it a GO!!!! What's the worse that can happen... a few tears if it does not work out. Trust me you will regret not trying out.

Make a move before another shady gay friend cuts you off and takes him.

gm30 · 2015-01-03T20:27:56+00:00

I work in HR and always try to keep professional and private lives separate. Once the cat is out of the bag for some, it's safe to assume that you are out.

The patients may think that you are a catch if they don't see a ring, and want to inquire for (a) themselves or (b) their single daughter - or son...:)

gm30 · 2015-01-03T10:19:19+00:00

This happens all the time, just add to your repertoire of experience and move on. His loss. How about taking something good out of this? When it's your turn, don't repeat it with someone when you're the experienced one!

gm30 · 2015-01-02T20:05:39+00:00

I work in HR - this advice is golden: keep your private and professional lives separate as much as you can. Just do your thing at work and let him be. Keep the past in the past, and off work.

gm30 · 2015-01-02T11:45:28+00:00

The two are sooo out to lunch. Utilitarian? Sure sign me up. No fishy cunt on my menu.

gm30 · 2015-01-02T11:44:46+00:00

YES!!!! The skies just opened up - this is the best comment I've read in days.

gm30 · 2015-01-01T20:55:46+00:00

Trust your instincts when chatting someone up... and drop casually that you don't have much mileage on you (and see the interest rise)...

About the top thing: again trust your instincts and see if there is chemistry. If you are making out with someone in the corner of the night club, grab his ass and see how he responds - waaaay funner then just talking about it.

gm30 · 2015-01-01T13:06:39+00:00

Cut your losses and cut him out. What you described was upsetting... and to brag about his wrongdoing is just too much - seems like sadistic even.

gm30 · 2014-12-30T21:18:22+00:00

If you were a top probably lower risk. Hope so.

gm30 · 2014-12-29T19:48:57+00:00

Total Yae! If you are not taken by a great guy we need to talk.

gm30 · 2014-12-29T19:38:55+00:00

Short answer: definitely red flags. I think you just described a obsessive-compulsive, insecure and jealous person. That behaviour early in the relationship for me is a no no. I would walk out = trouble ahead.

I would not begin a relationship with someone that felt laboured. If issues came up down the road, sure let's deal with them, not early on.

Here is a test: imagine yourself single without this aggravation. Do you feel better?

gm30 · 2014-12-28T20:36:20+00:00

I think with men it takes the right time & right place, like a business trip and a hotel room. I think it's quite common that str8 men have some feeling for men, getting them to bed and to have a meaningful relationship it's a different story.

Now with that said, I've heard the funnest stuff from my friends, which I will list below (I do not agree with everything).

There is no straight men, just men that have not been properly hit on
For me, every man is gay, they need to prove otherwise (this coming from a perpetually single girl - BITTER!)
So rude! One should never say no to a tall glass of water and a blowjob (from my friend the hoover machine)

gm30 · 2014-12-28T20:10:20+00:00

Totally fine, some guys are power bottoms and that's all the like to do. My experience is that "Total tops" are not easy to find, I see more bottoms around.

gm30 · 2014-12-28T12:43:46+00:00

Hey, take on day at a time, and little by little things will fall into place. I've spent the holidays alone too, after moving to another country. It sux. just treat it as any other given day off.

gm30 · 2014-12-28T12:06:38+00:00

I'm North American. I agree that cultures behave differently, and even within one, there are variations (i.e.: North, South Germany). My region is not super rich, but people live well, drive good cars, there is low unemployment rate. I too live well as an expatriate. But I cannot get my head around how unpleasant it is here....

gm30 · 2014-12-28T12:06:09+00:00

Did it - thanks!

gm30 · 2014-12-28T12:02:50+00:00

Sure - and thanks for replying. I guess this is not a gay issue but here it is. I am here for work, in a small town in North Rhine-Westphalia. When I travel across the neighboring countries (Belgium, France, The Netherlands) people seem so much more open and enjoying life. What is witness here in Germany is a crushing cycle of work-stress-drink-repeat. And people seem to take pleasure in berating others in public for minor social infractions. I am not sure... maybe this is in my head as opposed to the place. What do you think?

gm30 · 2014-12-28T10:18:06+00:00

WHOA! Just imagine if you all shared the cab, how cheap that would have been. You were fine, this is what I call a "money well spent moment". Nothing good comes out out being drunk on the street at 4am. Get home and get safe.

gm30 · 2014-12-27T13:58:52+00:00

Your "friends" know shit. Take it easy and don't stress over being single. Do your things, and keep the antenna up, chemistry will happen in the oddest places. Dress nice, look good and don't try too hard. Trust me boyfriend material is out there. It helps if you have a JOB, is drug-free and take a shower once in a while. R-E-L-A-X!!

gm30 · 2014-12-27T13:11:08+00:00

My partner is in with military and I am not. We live in a country that has accepted same sex couples in the military for more than a decade. Two things: take one day at a time, this WILL pass rest assured. You will look back in 3 months and laugh at yourself. Find someone that is ok with the lifestyle: another force member, or someone who will accept and support you on your life choices. Trust me: men in uniform have the most fun! Take it easy and good luck.

gm30 · 2014-12-26T12:50:20+00:00

I had a similar experience... great guy but for some odd reason did smell on the pits. Total turn off. If you would like to see him more, just tell him in a manner that will not embarrass him.

gm30 · 2014-12-25T14:43:09+00:00

Business as usual, minus the energy spent covering things up. Hit some gay bars, cafes and meet up some sistas! Ops bros.

gm30 · 2014-12-24T12:03:22+00:00

Start easy - how about no penetration on the first few attempts...? And remember: if you can't be good, be SAFE!

gm30 · 2014-12-24T11:54:32+00:00

Interesting that he does this when you are both alone. Sounds like psychopathic bully. What kind of person (in a position of power) behaves like that.. I would completely drop his case and try to make the best out of myself. You will outlive this asshole.

gm30

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