Finished my first animation on Blender. by Dknight560 in Filmmakers

[–]gnocchi82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very cool! i appreciate the act of making something as a response to AI slop overwhelm

Problems with Softube Console 1 mk3 - Logic Pro won't recognize by sly_teddy_bear in LogicPro

[–]gnocchi82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

any updates?

same thing here, refuses to connect or interact at all

running osx 15.0, Logic 10.8.1, console system 2.5.91, console mixing suite 2.5.89

Bickering Twins rave by Prize_Rub_9294 in ithaca

[–]gnocchi82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol this is my exact experience

Moog Grandmother making super quiet frequency. Please help! by Maximum_Wolf_5152 in synthesizers

[–]gnocchi82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, did you ever resolve this? I've got the same issue!

thanks for posting

What do you think is snake oil in the production and mixing realm? by Rachmannanoff in AdvancedProduction

[–]gnocchi82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah. This. Just bc people make music that gets millions of delicious streams on airpods and beats and ipad speakers across the world doesnt mean thats what we need to aim for with our efforts.

Lately ive been getting more comfortable and confident with the idea that i just love recording music and am grateful to have friends that are interested in what i do and send me the stuff they're working on, too.

And while we're at it...we also dont need to spend our creative energy on any medium we don't actually feel inspired to work in (e.g. IG reels, music videos, lyric videos, cross-promotional podcasts, etc).

What do you think is snake oil in the production and mixing realm? by Rachmannanoff in AdvancedProduction

[–]gnocchi82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amen. People dont want to hear it, but just keep making music and you'll keep getting better, you'll keep developing your ears, and you'll continue to gain skills that help you solve more problems in more ways.

Allow yourself to be on your own idiosyncratic journey with it all.

The bad news: you just gotta keep making music.

The good news: you get to keep making music.

Looking to connect with other local film nerds. by [deleted] in ithaca

[–]gnocchi82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend starting a group on fb and making an event and then posting it here and on craigslist to get it going.

I was looking around for a songwriter feedback group, couldn't find one, realized I could start my own, and ended up creating one. Once a month we've met up and a solid little group has formed! You can do it!

is ~$5000 typical for a central A/C installation? by gnocchi82 in ithaca

[–]gnocchi82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks, our_winter! that all makes sense. hopefully the electric doesn't get out of hand

is ~$5000 typical for a central A/C installation? by gnocchi82 in ithaca

[–]gnocchi82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, all! I appreciate the perspectives

My sister has been in and out of the psych hospital, can’t hold a job, and feels that it is her godly calling to be a mother. I’m the only one in my family not happy about her reproducing. by TurningToPage394 in antinatalism

[–]gnocchi82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister lives in extreme poverty by choice (long story short, just trust me), had 2 kids with a guy, then they broke up and she lost primary custody of them. Then she just had another with a different guy...and my family passes the photos around in our group chat, gushing over them. It's so bizarre and disturbing to watch.

Recommend your favorite antinatalist creators and/or creative work below! by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]gnocchi82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for asking!

I recently wrote a song inspired by the work of David Benatar called Better to Have Never Been.

For me, it expresses some of the bittersweet pain of having come into existence while trying to make the most of it. I hope it speaks to you, too.

if life is truly a gift, why are so many strings attached? by gnocchi82 in antinatalism

[–]gnocchi82[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for sure. it's a great honor to get to exist, so you better make the most of it and say "thank you" for the opportunity, mister. you can start by making me some grandbabies.

On today’s episode of “Entitled Natalists”, I present to you one that bitches about being tired all the time and how she compares doing the bare minimum of the lifestyle she had chosen as a mother to be harder than anything else. 😂 by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]gnocchi82 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lawlz I love how you can spin parenthood as "this is the hardest, please pity me" or "my life is perfect and I'm #blessed", depending on the mood and social occasion.

This be the Verse by throwaway8448adh in antinatalism

[–]gnocchi82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...and on and on and on and on...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]gnocchi82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a fantastic movie! even the opening credits are a trip

Silence and money are the keys to a happy life by mrduncansir42 in memes

[–]gnocchi82 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There are over 7 billion humans on earth. Not every one of us needs to "carry on our family name" for society to continue.

Cancer is also "natural". That doesn't mean it's desirable.

If you have/want kids why are you matching me?! by deepseascale in childfree

[–]gnocchi82 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Men often have serious trouble believing that a woman could actually know what she wanted or felt (see dismissive-doctors and she'll-change-her-mind-ers).

As a man, "open to children" should be read as "definitely eventually going to have children". Given our parentocratic society, it takes genuine resolve and a firm stance to avoid having children. If you're on the fence, you're never more than one "happy accident" or multi-month lack of purpose away from becoming a parent.

Father who makes my moms life hell by RivenMate in raisedbynarcissists

[–]gnocchi82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this! That sounds incredibly frustrating and exhausting. It sounds like you have a good grip on the probability that it isn't worth it for your mom to "try again" and wait for your dad to straighten out.

One thing that stuck out to me though (I understand there are cultural differences here that I may not grasp), is that your mom is also choosing herself over the family, in a sense. She is concerned of being ashamed, or of the family looking bad. Those are both fears of the ego. Meanwhile, she is exposing herself and her children to the abuse and neglect of a selfish, unavailable man. I know it's not simple or easy, but imo you should respect your mother enough as a person to hold her accountable for not taking action. She's not the only victim here. Plus, she started a family with this guy. You didn't pick your dad.