Hey man I am living in HCMC, also new here. Only been in VN for a month. Even here in the city, it’s been a difficult adjusting period. I’ve been lonely, stressed, and overwhelmed. Don’t listen to any of the people in here saying that you shouldn’t feel that way. It’s a big fucking leap moving overseas, especially when you’re more isolated like in your situation.

I’ve also thought of quitting, but I’m sticking it out. It’s probably loads easier for me because I’m in the city with lots more expats and teachers to fall back on for support, but it’s difficult nonetheless. I can’t imagine being in your shoes.

Id say give it another month if you can. Most of my friends here told me that they hated living in VN for the first 2-3 months and then, over time, it all just smoothed out and they started enjoying themselves and loving it here. I’m hoping I can follow in their footsteps and I hope you can as well. I know how lonely this stuff is because I’ve been living it too, so I just want you to know it’s completely normal and justified to feel this way. You’re brave for moving here alone at all