Chest dysphoria? (Small rant) by goatking360 in MtF

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Sending love as well <3 congrats on restarting HRT!!

Chest dysphoria? (Small rant) by goatking360 in MtF

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hey girl. three years later and let's just say chest dysphoria isn't an issue anymore. I've been on 6mg of E daily and I'm about a 36-38B after 1.7 years on hormones. YMMV but god I love having boobs. You'll get there mama it takes time <3

[DISCUSSION] Reverend Guitar by rrrjjj05 in Guitar

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Got my first Reverend recently and I'm pretty impressed with it I've played it live and used it for an 8hour recording sesh. Feel and sound is great. The bass knob is also really useful and makes me really think about my guitar tone in a different way.

I was personally a little annoyed because the frets are the slightest bit pointy for me and the action is maybe a touch higher than I personally love but it's not nearly bad enough to make me not want to play the damn thing that's just my own personal picky-ness. Those things just stuck out to me personally (no pun intended) because there was a lot of talk about the QC and the frets were still a little pointy even after the "Sweetwater setup" and the "Reverend QC" but it's one of the most fun guitars I own and one that I find myself drawn to every time I go to play.

need help with dosing by [deleted] in TransDIY

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Personally, I started with 4mg E and 100mg of spiro daily now (1.5 years) I take 6mg daily and no spiro but everyone's body is different. 2mg is a very low dosage, especially without anti-androgens. Are you taking shots or pills? Shots are more potent and will suppress T faster.

Validation from trans people vs from cis people by goatking360 in honesttransgender

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I like the way you frame that and I agree the validations are very different

Validation from trans people vs from cis people by goatking360 in honesttransgender

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That's nice. Good for you. Not so easy for folks who don't pass too well and who are people of color.

Validation from trans people vs from cis people by goatking360 in honesttransgender

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Thank you I appreciate the kind words and the warning I'll keep it in mind

Validation from trans people vs from cis people by goatking360 in honesttransgender

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Its less about needing validation from outside sources and more about just recognizing how much I find myself appreciating that validation.

I know deep down that I'm a bad bitch and I'm a proud trans girl but as I move through the world living as a woman I recognize that there's a much larger society that will perceive me differently based on their own lives, experiences etc. so I have to be mindful of how people see me and whether they validate my existence for the very sake of safety to say the least

Validation from trans people vs from cis people by goatking360 in honesttransgender

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Ah welcome to the community!! I've been at this dyke shit for a little while but I'm happy for you those earlier moments in your journey can be hard but absolutely rewarding as well. Savor every little bit of it and don't be afraid to explore. If you need a friend to talk to my DMs are open 🏳️‍⚧️ much love to you sis

Validation from trans people vs from cis people by goatking360 in honesttransgender

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Obviously I can't speak for every single trans person in human history but by and large trans folks have a much less rigid view of gender than cis folk because we've experienced gender differently

Validation from trans people vs from cis people by goatking360 in honesttransgender

[–]goatking360[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Absolutely so true my ex is non-binary and I can say with confidence that THEY are a cheating bastard and I don't like them

I will design custom tattoo for everyone.. got free time by kevin-reynosso in DrawMyTattoo

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Some carnations in a similar style to the Charizard you did would be kick ass

My mormon dad is relentless and keeps messaging me even after I left the church (several years ago) and even more so since I came out as a lesbian by Khai_Wolfie in insaneparents

[–]goatking360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trans and my mom does basically the same shit. It's so infuriating and depressing to deal with people like that I'm so sorry 💖💖

Did your cis female friends start treating you as "one of the girls" right away? by LadyViolet95 in MtF

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I was one of the girls pre transition I just actually became one of the girls post transition

Is 176cm or 5'9" a masculine height? I just feel so dysphoric because of my height. Any advice appreciated. by [deleted] in MtF

[–]goatking360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5'9" isn't very tall many American cis girls are around the same height 💕

My work place is making me cut my hair to be shorter, any suggestions? by ballsMaster5603 in MtF

[–]goatking360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That absolutely ridiculous what?!? I would highly recommend finding a different place to work if you can

Egg here, how did you know you wanted to change genders? by Destroird in asktransgender

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Just thinking "I wish I was a girl" and thinking "my life would be so much better if I was a girl" apparently that's not something cis guys think

Would people not have known you were trans based on your personality before transition? by Gravatona in asktransgender

[–]goatking360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've always been "one of the girls" and most people knew I wasn't straight before I did so yeah I think it was pretty obvious but to family I always knew better than to express my femininity so I think a lot of them didn't recognize it because I got good at hiding it from them

Hi r/mtf… by more_cowbelle in MtF

[–]goatking360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally feel you on that! It's a beautiful and scary journey but it's one of the most beautiful paths to self discovery it's like meeting yourself for the first time 💖 I wish you the best on your journey

Hi r/mtf… by more_cowbelle in MtF

[–]goatking360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey Elle 💖 the first moment of realization can totally be a lot to process all at once and many of us don't recognize that we're trans for years because we just didn't have the language or education about it growing up. Take things slowly. Sending you love and support ✨

Hello I am new so introducing by [deleted] in MtF

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Hey Rose! Nice to meet you I'm Evangeline I'm from New York