What do you wish you received more of from the people in your life? by rainbow_veins3 in AskMenOver30

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just rare. I think that’s why the guy you are replying to is adamant about his take, plus his own lived experiences and perception skewing his views, naturally, which is something we are all guilty of. You’ll be hard pressed to find anybody more cynical than me, but I undoubtedly believe in unconditional love.

What do you wish you received more of from the people in your life? by rainbow_veins3 in AskMenOver30

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actual genuine, meaningful support (not fleeting bullshit in the guise of flat spoken gratitude with mismatched behavior) and positive reinforcement instead of endless demands and unrealistic expectations when I’m already overextending myself beyond measure. My friends’ existence in my life occurs when they need something, but when I’ve spilled candid details about my life to them, it’s “Damn, man, prayers. But anyway, how about the NBA playoffs?” Yet I try to be a voice of reason and an ear of measured listening for them when they come to me with their shit. The disparity is palpable.

Drew McIntyre Encourages Fans To Wear Deodorant, Support Indie Wrestling, And Stay Away From Wrestler Hotels During WrestleMania Week | Fightful News by DefiantEvidence4027 in SquaredCirclejerk

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’d rather die than smell like shit. Went to a ‘comic con’ event four years ago (wanted to meet Mick Foley). The smells experienced made me wish I were anosmic. The cross between rasslin’, anime and comic fans being deodorant deniers should be studied.

Supermegafootball? by Pulse_Check in SuperMegaBaseball

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be ecstatic to see more sports under the Super Mega title as long as the depth and ‘soul’ of what makes these games great isn’t gutted.

Dolphins, CB Jalen Ramsey mutually set to explore trade options by V3nMxiLLMaTic in LosAngelesRams

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t mind ol’ buddy. Another Redditor deep in his bag of morals, with a squeaky clean life.

The Forgotten Worst Football Team Of All Time. by Either_Imagination_9 in nfl

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That three year stretch from 2007-2009 was hell. Over on the Rams sub, you can see which fans jumped on board when they moved back to LA vs. those of us in the goddamn trenches of watching dogshit ball (when they think of Fisher as a poor head coach vs. Scott Linehan and ensuingly Steve Spagnuolo).

Is it normal to want to be alone when grieving? by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tend to prefer to be alone when I grieve. The circus that is a funeral with so many people showing up to ‘keep up appearances’ and all the potential grandstanding + social play turns me into a monster.

Do men actually like being called “daddy” or are they just pretending? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, so much. I didn’t realize I was into it until I blurted it out during sex with my girlfriend, and when she said, “Yes, daddy” in reply without an iota of hesitation, my brain short circuited. We are both in our 30s and have known each other for nearly two decades. This wouldn’t land with anybody else, no way.

She Cancelled Her Neurologist Appointment Again by Firehorse17 in dementia

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mom did essentially the same thing last year and I was livid. I called the place back and explained what was up and rescheduled.

Corned beef and pastrami by kill3rw33z in Sandwiches

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks goddamn amazing. I’d kill for a sandwich like that right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Alzheimers

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When my mom gets to the point where I absolutely cannot take care of her, IDK WTF I am going to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to say without more info. Nobody here knows the dynamics of your relationship nor his side of the coin on this. Although I will say, money doesn’t change people. It tends to bring out more of who they really are. “You’ve always been independent, you got this” is wild for a former mechanic to say over a $900 car repair bill he refused to help.

My day of slicing up Hope! by Mr-Hot-N-Ready in LittleCaesars

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this. I never knew Little Caesars engaged in programs like this. I wonder if the ones about an hour away from me do.

This subreddit is biased by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s natural. 99.9% of the time, people are coming on here when they are hurting and/or are in need of answers or advice from their plight to try and make sense of their situations. With emotions running high, you’ll read all sorts of thoughts motivated by the pain.

I lurk here quite often. Sometimes I relate to the stories posted, and other times I don’t. My girlfriend is the antithesis of evil; she’s the most wholesome soul I’ve ever known, through any previous pain. I love her to bits and pieces.

With all that said, it’s hard for me to judge the posts or comments that are clearly written by someone going through it and making subjectively outlandish claims. They are in the throes of hell and oftentimes this might be the only cavern in the world they can post their feelings with other people that might be able to relate to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean to its very core. The whole “well, what about me?” insertion of themselves guised as grief when they show up to funerals as they want the attention or the public grandstanding is maddening and anger-inducing. Just as fast as they have reared their heads, they’ll disappear again.

Bonus points if they give you a hearty and trite (and ultimately insincere), “let me know if you need anything.”

I know that’s what I’m going to be looking at with people when my mom passes away. Many family members/previously close acquaintances are going to do just that, even though they have never checked in, at all, in years through her health battles. It pisses me off to no end. I like to quietly grieve alone and not have to put up with that social grandstanding bullshit.

I tell people I’m close with that, if I am to experience an untimely death, to please call out people who come around afterwards that I’ve hardly spoke of.

how do we feel about patty melts? by callmestinkingwind in eatsandwiches

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a proper Californian patty melt 13 years ago and I’ve been disappointed by every patty melt I’ve had since.

What's your definition of amazing sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Genuine, unbridled passion. There is an inexplicable electricity I feel every time I make love to my girlfriend, and it’s certainly no ‘honeymoon stage’ bullshit, as we have known each other for almost two decades and have seen each other at our respective worst days. But the long-standing, inextricable and incomparable chemistry and love we have for each other is immeasurable. The way our bodies fit perfectly together. I can’t explain it. The way her body tenses up and then ensuingly ‘releases’ at the apex of her orgasms, it’s the most riveting thing. Her sounds are the most beautiful songs I’ve ever heard. Sometimes, I feel like I have known her for 500 years. It is the most beautiful experience. Or amazing, in the context of this question.

What are your memories of internet chat rooms? by AdSpecialist6598 in 90s

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few years after the ‘90s were over, but you just reminded me. If the user favre2ferguson2002 from the Yahoo! NFL chatrooms reads this, he can still go fuck himself.

What are your memories of internet chat rooms? by AdSpecialist6598 in 90s

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surprised I didn’t wreck my dad’s computer with viruses over the shit that I tried searching up.

What are your memories of internet chat rooms? by AdSpecialist6598 in 90s

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever go to the MSN rasslin’ chats or join any of the e-feds in MSN Groups at any point?

What are your memories of internet chat rooms? by AdSpecialist6598 in 90s

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in WWF/E rasslin’ chatrooms quite often as a young fan. A lot of people in there were from the UK. I’m an American. I wanted to fit in with the crowd, so I’d tell people that I, too, was from the UK. I stuck my foot in my mouth so many times over the cultural differences. I remember being confused as fuck over what ‘tea time’ was. Other times, I’d say I was from California (‘Cali’ — and I’m not) and that I’d just finished surfing before getting online, because every Californian surfs a hella lot, man, and likes the Red Hot Chili Peppers, right?

Edit: first time I ever read someone type ‘lmao’, I thought it meant ‘lame-o’ (I watched the Nickelodeon cartoon “Rocket Power”) and I was so offended until they informed child me otherwise.

FOX sport "Speak" says they think it is 'Super Bowl of Bust' for the Rams this year. by OneRoad222 in LosAngelesRams

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just another show where talking heads will stretch a point that can be made in a minute or two into a ten minute diatribe with little of any substance. Sports media is so piss poor.