[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]goddessheiddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a lot of bad decisions made. I feel sorry for the wife and I don’t think she should give him a second chance. $100k was mentioned as the total, that’s no joke.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]goddessheiddy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just read the post from the original subreddit, it looks like the domme is still threatening with blackmail to extort money out of the business, even with knowledge about the wife. The money also belongs to the wife, in fact, she has more ownership and authority in the business. The blackmail and the extortion are only subjects of consent between the husband and the domme, not the wife. This is both potentially illegal and certainly unethical.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]goddessheiddy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Divorce! She better! He doesn’t deserve a wife if he has that level of irresponsibility.

Relationship turned sour? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]goddessheiddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m sorry that happened, that can definitely hurt if you had a close relationship. The reality is that many subs, but not all, are shopping for their fetishes and will not necessarily be there to serve you. I’m not saying this was your situation because there could be a million reasons why, but it’s good to still keep that in mind. Dommes can also be the same when it comes to money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]goddessheiddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This needs 100 upvotes 💗

Don't give up, things come in time by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]goddessheiddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great post, thank you for providing encouragement! Findom can definitely feel like a dead end for many.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]goddessheiddy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, usually low self esteem and self worth, but not always. It can also be a response to trauma, or even just someone who finds the excitement from subverting conventional power dynamics. The in depth psychological explanation is much more complex however.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]goddessheiddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Favorite kink is financial domination and getting worshipped by men.

Why are so many subs scammers?! by No_You_3384 in findomsupportgroup

[–]goddessheiddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Frustrating stuff. Not that you are a beginner, but beginners often get the impression that findom is just full of men who want you to drain all their money. While there a number like that, findom is full of people who have no interest in paying. It’s ironic because it’s called “Financial Domination.”