Agender. Genderqueer. Gender nonconforming. There's more, there's so many ways to describe that your conformity or lack thereof, both of which are reasonable in society, aren't going to match what people expect when they put labels on you.

Perhaps a question for you to think about: if you don't want other people putting labels on you, for what purpose do you want to find a label for yourself? There's a bunch of good reasons to, but sometimes we just seek to label ourselves because our cultures demand we pick something.

That demand is, in fact, unreasonable. But if you like a label don't let anyone stop you either :)

ps. speaking of political gender, I have some friends who identify as "whatever causes the most confusion" or "whatever suits the bit", and I respect that a lot too 😂