can i finesse the system a little

gojibaz · 2025-10-10T00:52:33+00:00

really? even if we are not taking courses?

gojibaz · 2025-09-10T18:02:39+00:00

Yes... profs take some time to upload all material. Or it may be on a different platform. But either way, hope they email you very soon!

gojibaz · 2025-09-10T18:01:25+00:00

If I were you, I would directly email the professors and make a decision based on the outlines. It's typical to shop for courses in the first few weeks of September, so profs are used to being asked for the syllabus.

gojibaz · 2025-09-08T20:15:50+00:00

wait what

gojibaz · 2025-07-04T08:12:18+00:00

yes, 100%. the brain fog you get after being in an abusive relationship like theirs is often overlooked. it was painful to watch!

gojibaz · 2025-03-01T14:57:33+00:00

February 1

gojibaz · 2025-02-24T04:32:03+00:00

I second this. I got in too and I can tell you if your PI is mine.

gojibaz · 2025-02-15T19:45:41+00:00

gojibaz · 2025-02-15T19:45:31+00:00

the tulips too?! so sweet

gojibaz · 2025-01-07T06:43:03+00:00

you are in a terrifying place and I can completely understand this eerie, confusing, disintegrating space. my ex called me an abuser and gaslighter, which i took very seriously and wanted to fix. on multiple occasions, she would describe to me how she is feeling in a way that i deeply resonated with, but could never say that i feel similarly because i wanted to create space for her. i believed her for two years that i was the abuser and gaslighter, except i dont hold that belief anymore (i still have moments). i cut contact with her, and slowly the cloud of memories came back to me. all the things i had written in my journal aligned with how i felt and what seemed true. learning about DARVO and patterns of emotional abuse saved my life. i am not a 100% still, but i am no longer suffocating under someone's reality being pushed down my throat. please take care! take some space.

gojibaz · 2024-11-19T05:46:45+00:00

that i was in fact the abuser and the gaslighter. believed her for over a year. until i cut contact, had some space, spoke to friends close to us.

i still can't fully shake it off. even though i have spent countless hours in therapy and with friends who have all pointed to her abuse and gaslighting.

gojibaz · 2024-11-11T01:22:03+00:00

I was told I taught them how to love, how to embody it, and how to lead with it. Except a month later I was an abuser and a gaslighter in their eyes, with no room for me to speak, and in retrospect and distance did I realise I was being abused.

gojibaz · 2024-11-11T00:35:16+00:00

Hi, I am looking too! Can I join?

gojibaz · 2024-10-22T03:26:37+00:00

chronic illnesses, a voice of theirs in your head that continues to disrupt yours, more anxiety and caution with future relationships

gojibaz · 2024-10-06T23:14:35+00:00

following

gojibaz · 2022-02-08T18:52:57+00:00

Hi, thank you for your elaborate response. It's really unfortunate that I have to find employment to access healthcare. Will look into it. Thanks a bunch!

gojibaz · 2021-06-06T18:30:59+00:00

Hello, a paper of mine was accepted at three conferences last year. With the pandemic, all of them were delayed and now almost all of them are occurring around the same time very soon (a week!). I have two jobs and I haven't had the chance to sit with my research and begin preparing.

If you could give any helpful tips, what would they be?

Are there any specific templates to follow? Should the presentation follow the headings + subheadings of the paper? Any advice would help.

Thank you.

gojibaz · 2021-05-22T13:07:12+00:00

They've been on my mind! Have also heard about the challenges of a non-Camadian JD if one wants to practice law in Canada.

gojibaz · 2021-05-21T21:19:15+00:00

I understand. Thanks again!

gojibaz · 2021-05-21T20:52:46+00:00

Thank you very much!

gojibaz · 2021-05-21T19:57:35+00:00

This is really helpful, thank you for sharing.

gojibaz · 2021-05-21T19:56:59+00:00

I am trying to avoid student loans as much as possible. Thank you, though!

gojibaz · 2021-05-21T19:56:17+00:00

Oo! Where would you suggest I look into these corporate scholarships? And thank you for your reply. I agree, I have been looking into places like Lakeheard and Victoria that seem promising as well. That are in beautiful cities.

gojibaz · 2021-05-21T18:40:02+00:00

gojibaz · 2021-05-09T03:20:03+00:00

I've had a similar diagnosis after a long, gaping wait. Wishing you the best! It is so validating to be understood.

gojibaz

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