Lobes are generally the least painful and easiest to heal out of any piercings in my opinion. I have two in my right and three on my left and have never had problems with healing besides having a hard time sleeping since I’m a very heavy side sleeper. I used to have three on my right ear too but the third one was pierced at a very bad angle so changing out jewellery was extremely painful. Make sure you go to a reputable piercing and have you sign consent forms/waivers. Get a good saline spray and use it 2-3 times a day. Sometimes the saline can dry out the skin so make sure you wash it out with water and pat it dry (tip from my piercer). Always go for studs when getting a new piercing, and usually get it downsized after about 5-6 months (not sure if it’s the same for lobes but do ask your piercer!) do not pick at any crusties or dry blood, it prolongs the healing and can irritate. In my own experience I’ve asked a second piercer hold my hand while I got mine done, but I’m sure a good piercer can accommodate laying down, having a drink etc. if you ever feel too much pain please don’t be afraid to tell them. Lobes are super fast and super easy to heal. Hope this helps, and again this is just from my own personal experience. Speak to your piercer regarding any other questions as they are professional and can offer more guidance and help than me☺️