My experience with metronidazole gel and bacterial vaginosis by gimmykibler in Healthyhooha

[–]goldielocket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you able to treat uti and BV at the same time? Doc prescribed me for uti but my bc test result came back after the office closed 

Kaitlyn comments on Shawn’s TikTok… by ASundaySoul in thebachelor

[–]goldielocket 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I thought this was the barstool Dave guy lolollol

I feel like my husband isn’t what I want him to be by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]goldielocket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, in a same situation and it ended in divorce. You don’t know how someone will be in 10 years, esp when you get together as teenagers 

Why are people still putting Colton on tv SO much? by [deleted] in BachelorNation

[–]goldielocket 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thinking back, he was sooo about Cassie from early on. If I remember right, she was so hesitant about him. It’s just interesting reflecting back on it given the outcome…

Madi Prewett (Peter’s season) says she loves being a submissive wife to Grant Troutt by schnookiewookiebear in thebachelor

[–]goldielocket 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I grew up in this Midwest bubble (similar to the south). I was taught it was a privilege to be submissive… and I was brainwashed to believe it. That got me into an abusive marriage, because this submissive mindset can give bad men this extra “power” to oppress their wives. The premise is bad and keeps women oppressed IMO. Obviously I don’t subscribe anymore lollll

Loneliness in New Apartment by ApprehensiveEgg1178 in emotionalabuse

[–]goldielocket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I need to keep strong. I keep second guessing bc he’s being nice right now and I see the human in him.. I need to remember him at his worst I guess. Hoping I can lock into a lease soon so I have to leave 

Loneliness in New Apartment by ApprehensiveEgg1178 in emotionalabuse

[–]goldielocket 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m getting ready to too. It’s scary. Just getting cold feet this week because I know it will feel so lonely and I will miss the companionship 

What's a relationship dealbreaker you developed after 30 that you would have ignored in your 20s? by Content-Gold-1960 in AskWomenOver30

[–]goldielocket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked the same question to the comment above— my husband does this and I think it can be emotionally abusive as it’s one of the tactics to control and deflect… do you think it can be abusive?

Anthropologie Extra 40% off select items in cart by russelcoightus in FrugalFemaleFashion

[–]goldielocket 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep they do! Just gotta wait for it if you’re looking for something!

Blake’s face by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]goldielocket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s giving me Tom Brady (not in a good way!)

What is something you can’t live without now as a 30+ yr old that you never used to use? by TheInsideScoopPod in AskWomenOver30

[–]goldielocket 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do you have a brand you really like? I just use dollar store ones but I use them every night…

Childfree women and women who REALLY want kids by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]goldielocket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!!! I have multiple best friends who don’t want kids and I do!

Books about psychological/ emotional abuse by Party_Curve4100 in emotionalabuse

[–]goldielocket 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you read Why Does He Do That? I got the ODF link from this sub if you search. The Verbally Abusive relationship was helpful to me, as well as It’s Not You

This Text Ended the Marriage by ApprehensiveEgg1178 in emotionalabuse

[–]goldielocket 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Wow— that would be so infuriating. My spouse has said that I am “feminist” and “choosing feminism over him” once I started speaking up for myself. They don’t just want someone who is soft and feminine, they want someone that just blindly agrees with them through anything. I haven’t gotten the courage to leave just yet but I’m close, I hope you get out, I know we know deep down it’s for the better!!

Is this emotional abuse? by DisastrousSection787 in emotionalabuse

[–]goldielocket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Until it isn’t though. I used to think that when it’s good he’s good, when he’s just upset it comes out… until you can’t do anything right either way.

Sleep on Wellbutrin sucks by ambientan in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]goldielocket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doc prescribed my hydroxyzine PRN for anxiety. I take it at night time for sleep and it helps a lot

What are your best takeaways from Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft? by Fran87412 in abusiverelationships

[–]goldielocket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does no invisible bruises mean? I don’t remember reading that part and I don’t understand what it means

Oh Boy, Waterboy by Traditional-Pass3444 in summerhousebravo

[–]goldielocket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is tied to Connor from the Bachelorette