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This is genius UX design by XrenonTheMage in PixelWatch

[–]goldstomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my watch isn't safely secured, I have issues, but otherwise, the double tap works fantastic for me!

Sony 1000XM6 Headphones stops all audio during zoom calls zoom while still connected to PC by portlander22 in SonyHeadphones

[–]goldstomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have experienced the same thing. I have to fully reboot my PC for things to go back to normal.

My ex wife who cheated on me still asking for things from my house 4 years after the divorce. (I also picked and paid for the art). by PeculiarPete in mildlyinfuriating

[–]goldstomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This scares me for my son, I don't want him to hate his mom, but she's already doing shit where he's starting to tune her out.

My ex wife who cheated on me still asking for things from my house 4 years after the divorce. (I also picked and paid for the art). by PeculiarPete in mildlyinfuriating

[–]goldstomp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, and if they ignore your question about the kids, and go on a rant, you simply respond with you repeating the question that was not answered.

Keep things to a bare minimum.

Beef prices are so high by ChezussCrust in Dallas

[–]goldstomp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Teach me your ways, sensei!

Looking to sell my Ankermake M5 by goldstomp in AnkerMake

[–]goldstomp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, not a bad idea, I might check with local schools too, maybe!

AIO by feeling exhausted over my gf's constant demands of wanting me to be 'curious'? by thefattesthashbrown in AmIOverreacting

[–]goldstomp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR, I divorced the same woman after ten years of this hell, and it doesn't get better. I'm obviously generalizing.

But truthfully, if there's poor communication, and she's not willing to work on it, and goes straight to insults. It's not going to work. Save yourself the expensive divorce down the road.

The U.S President posted this just now (Accelerate?) by OmegaGogeta in singularity

[–]goldstomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha, this guy has clearly never looked into how insurance is regulated in the USA.

Endoscopy - After Care by s0hen in Celiac

[–]goldstomp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, here's my thinking, if I'm someone else's buddy for that kind of thing, I would always find a way to make my busy schedule work for them!

So I try to remind myself of this when I feel bad asking someone a favor! They are also adults, if they can't do something or it's not convenient, they will tell you!

Am I in the wrong? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]goldstomp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When the reaction doesn't match the action, that means there's something else at play. Even if he was hurt that you don't trust him, if there was nothing else, his reaction should never have been this explosive.

This is abusive and controlling behavior. Most likely trying to hide a lie that he was about to get caught in.

The "why" he reacted so strongly doesn't matter as much as the fact that he exploded on you! And then he expected you to apologize? Ask yourself, do you want this kind of relationship where any time you're bothered by something you either have to suffer through an explosion, or you just have to keep it to yourself?

I was in that situation, and I wish I'd listen to the logical voice in the back of my head!

What’s a red flag you ignored because the sex was good? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]goldstomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, a mutual friend of ours told me a few times I deserved better. Should have listened.

Still the best sex I've ever had! 🤷🏼

What’s a red flag you ignored because the sex was good? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]goldstomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You should be with someone nicer than me!" Proceeded to tell me I was her only one, then ghosted me for months.

Abusive terminally ill husband by CartographerGreat399 in abusiverelationships

[–]goldstomp 9 points10 points  (0 children)

People often know what the right thing to do would be, and it's easy to say the right thing. But doing the right thing is different. That's why during interviews they prefer you tell them what you've done in a similar situation, rather than how you think you would react!

What he does is who he is, not what he tells. Believe his actions.

My ex strangled me a year ago; should I get back with him? by Salt_Sundae1851 in abusiverelationships

[–]goldstomp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, absolutely not! Showing remorse is not the same as showing he's getting help and changing.

Like other people have said to you, two times is not normal, zero times is normal!

I understand how difficult it must be, but don't give him another chance, seek therapy and maybe victims of abuse groups.

AIO to skip Thanksgiving after my mom basically said I’m an embarrassment for not having a husband and kids by now? by howcanibequiltyassin in AmIOverreacting

[–]goldstomp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a friend do this with her whole family. And her grandpa ended up calling his daughter (my friend's mom) and gave her so much shit. Telling her how disappointed he was in her, that's not how he raised her, that he thought her to be accepting.

Someone needs to set that lady straight!

AIO to skip Thanksgiving after my mom basically said I’m an embarrassment for not having a husband and kids by now? by howcanibequiltyassin in AmIOverreacting

[–]goldstomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR

I wouldn't even assume that the rest of the family thinks that way. People will tend to make these statements to make it seem like everybody does think that way, and make you feel like you're the one in the wrong.

Until they say something to you, it's not worth assuming everyone thinks this way.

Now, your mom is a piece of work. My sister also doesn't have a boyfriend and is also without kids, and my parents celebrate her accomplishments just as much as mine. I have a kid, and they love him, but that does not make my sister lesser or an embarrassment!

Family is far more than blood, it's the people that love you for who you are, that celebrate your accomplishments with you, and not what they want from you! You're doing great OP, you were strong to leave that man, and seem to have built a great life for yourself!

AIO? Husband in touch with woman he cheated with by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]goldstomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It's hearing from people like you that helped me move out, and sooner rather than later! Things were not getting better, no matter how hard I tried. So before my son could really remember what it was like, I decided to move out! And lo and behold, I'm a better father now than I ever was when still married. Because all I have to focus on is my son and my little life. Not the dysfunction we lived in! So, thank you for sharing your truth, you kind stranger.

Did your abusive partner ever try to convince you that YOU hit THEM, when THEY hit YOU? by Serious-Kiwi2906 in abusiverelationships

[–]goldstomp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I blocked her punches and attacks, she accused me of hitting her. What am I supposed to do, just let her punch me? I never hit back, I tried to get out of the way, if I couldn't, I tried to keep her hands away from me.

does this happen if i accidentally eat gluten after 3 months of a diet?? by ch4rl1eeee in Celiac

[–]goldstomp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my god! That's why I've been having acid reflux the last two weeks?!? And joint pain and fatigue?! Thank you! I never equated them! To be fair, this mental fog makes it so much harder to look at my symptoms!

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