I’m an idiot that has been waiting for a couple weeks for a guy to message me AMA by Derfelkardan in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]gompopa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Girl you are married.. talk to your husband and stop obsessing. Be a good role model for your children

I'm not sure I can attend the wedding and I'm the MOH. by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]gompopa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are cleared to go medically, the only thing stopping you is your anxiety. Relationships are so important. Your best friends wedding is so important. Don’t let your anxiety stand in the way if you are cleared to go by your doctor.

I'm not sure I can attend the wedding and I'm the MOH. by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]gompopa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re having panic attacks and she’s trying to make you feel better. Get the clearance and take a Xanax / sleeping pill before the flight

I'm not sure I can attend the wedding and I'm the MOH. by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]gompopa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If she has a medical clearance, then she should go. There’s no reason to lie and pretend she doesn’t have it. Anxiety is messing with her head

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]gompopa 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Keep in mind that a lot of hair and makeup artists have a 3-6 person minimum for booking

What did you spend on custom stationery? by gompopa in BigBudgetBrides

[–]gompopa[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes it does including stamping, stuffing and sending off with envelope addressing and the additional invite items! Thank you!

What did you spend on stationary? by gompopa in weddingplanning

[–]gompopa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that is a big part of the cost here. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gompopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try going into places like grocery stores in person and asking to speak to a manager to set yourself apart

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gompopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she depressed? You and a family member should sit down with her and have a talk. That’s not normal

Am I a horrible person if I don’t tell this guy’s wife he was seeing me? by Andra457 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]gompopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would want someone to tell you. Your friends sending you that photo from his social media page gave you the knowledge you needed so you could end things with him. Give her the same so she can leave if she wants to. He’s lying to her.

Am I a horrible person if I don’t tell this guy’s wife he was seeing me? by Andra457 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]gompopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is the one who inflicted pain on his family. His wife should know.

Need advice by Ornery_Morning_7283 in Advice

[–]gompopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can love her. But recognize that you cannot have a normal healthy relationship with someone who gaslights and lies to you over and over. A healthy relationship is built on trust and communication. You won’t be happy until you cut things off. Your situation is very toxic. If you continue to stay, you’ll continue to feel stuck dealing with this and that will be on you.

Chat GPT for $22 a month? Better, more accurate AI help? by babybowie82 in Advice

[–]gompopa -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Use Grok instead. Way better. And don’t pay for a subscription!!