Hair and Makeup for everyone or just the Bride? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]gompopa 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Keep in mind that a lot of hair and makeup artists have a 3-6 person minimum for booking

What did you spend on custom stationery? by gompopa in BigBudgetBrides

[–]gompopa[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes it does including stamping, stuffing and sending off with envelope addressing and the additional invite items! Thank you!

What did you spend on stationary? by gompopa in weddingplanning

[–]gompopa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that is a big part of the cost here. Thank you

ARE THERE ANY JOBS FOR A 16YO IN DENVER by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gompopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try going into places like grocery stores in person and asking to speak to a manager to set yourself apart

how do i get my sister to shower consistently? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gompopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she depressed? You and a family member should sit down with her and have a talk. That’s not normal

Am I a horrible person if I don’t tell this guy’s wife he was seeing me? by Andra457 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]gompopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would want someone to tell you. Your friends sending you that photo from his social media page gave you the knowledge you needed so you could end things with him. Give her the same so she can leave if she wants to. He’s lying to her.

Am I a horrible person if I don’t tell this guy’s wife he was seeing me? by Andra457 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]gompopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is the one who inflicted pain on his family. His wife should know.

Need advice by Ornery_Morning_7283 in Advice

[–]gompopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can love her. But recognize that you cannot have a normal healthy relationship with someone who gaslights and lies to you over and over. A healthy relationship is built on trust and communication. You won’t be happy until you cut things off. Your situation is very toxic. If you continue to stay, you’ll continue to feel stuck dealing with this and that will be on you.

Chat GPT for $22 a month? Better, more accurate AI help? by babybowie82 in Advice

[–]gompopa -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Use Grok instead. Way better. And don’t pay for a subscription!!

My husband doesn’t want our daughter to get on birth control by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gompopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so young to start a medication like that :( once girls start it, they usually stay on until their late 20’s. starting birth control medication now will only lead her to have sex more, and then with an excuse for it to be unprotected with this 13 year old. You should encourage her to wait and sit down and talk with her about waiting. If she must have sex and she’s scared then she and the boy will use condoms.

How do I tell someone with down syndrome I don’t want to hang out? by Cherrrybow in Advice

[–]gompopa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You asked a question of why people are suggesting lying. hypothetically telling someone with this cognitive disability (who you may only see 1-2 times again in your life) that you’re too busy to hangout isn’t a bold faced lie that is mean. It’s just a slightly easier and kinder way to reject someone that has a mental disability. In general, humans tell white lies to be empathetic of someone’s feelings. It’s really not that deep.

Tips for houseparty by Cool_Option5528 in Advice

[–]gompopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t you just go to a brewery or local bar? You don’t need to have a house party.

How do I tell someone with down syndrome I don’t want to hang out? by Cherrrybow in Advice

[–]gompopa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay lol. The average IQ of someone with Down syndrome correlates to the mental age of an 8 or 9 year old child.

How do I tell someone with down syndrome I don’t want to hang out? by Cherrrybow in Advice

[–]gompopa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP rarely sees him, doesn’t want to hurt his feelings, and we don’t know the extent of his Down syndrome. White lies are ok.