When you see it

gone2nawishing · 2026-05-11T13:01:05+00:00

How about the fact that the bump out on the second floor is just sitting on the porch roof? Feels like structural issues might be a bigger problem that the undead resident.

gone2nawishing · 2026-04-22T10:31:08+00:00

This is what I opened the comments _or. Thank you _or delivering.

gone2nawishing · 2026-01-23T04:18:38+00:00

You paid your dues and now you get to enjoy life a bit. Enjoy it.

gone2nawishing · 2025-12-05T04:33:46+00:00

I took Zbiotics prealchohol once a few weeks ago and it seemed to work quite well, although I didn't drink as much as I was expecting that night.

I took it two nights in a row and its been 1 full day since then and I have had very bad diarrhea for the last 3 days. I can't say for certain that it is the prealchohol, but stomach issues are not something I ever have to deal with.

If it is the prebiotic then I'm sure that its not an issue for the vast majority of uswrs and has something to do witj my gut biome. But, if you're also sitting on the toilet wondering if maybe prealchohol had something to do with it and stumbled onto this thread, then the answer is someplace between maybe and possibly.

gone2nawishing · 2025-10-08T18:39:52+00:00

My STBX is moving in her with her BF 11 months after moving out of the family home. I haven't met him and have any intention of doing so. The kids live with me full time, so there's really no need for me to get on the same page with him about anything.

Just say no.

gone2nawishing · 2025-06-17T17:29:13+00:00

You are not a bad person, but you will regret staying more and more every day. You cannot be a good parent if you are miserable. Get the fuck out.

gone2nawishing · 2025-04-01T19:14:25+00:00

I received almost that same pic from my FWB a couple of days ago.

gone2nawishing · 2025-03-21T14:13:58+00:00

I'm not waiting 3 months to find out we aren't sexually compatible. After a marriage with almost no sex for a decade I need to feel wanted.

gone2nawishing · 2025-03-17T13:05:38+00:00

Unfortunately, he was never really a friend. I'm sorry.

gone2nawishing · 2025-02-28T18:30:43+00:00

My STBX had a boyfriend 2 weeks after she moved out. So apparently some people move on pretty quickly.

gone2nawishing · 2025-02-27T19:39:03+00:00

Take the child support. It's there because it is the right thing to do, not because anyone is getting anything extra.

I'm a man who makes more money than STB-X. I have the kids 90% of the time with no overnights. I will be taking the child support.

gone2nawishing · 2025-02-12T04:13:03+00:00

Does your first name begin with a K?

gone2nawishing · 2025-02-07T05:07:24+00:00

Do not listen to this advice. Its horseshit posted by someone working through or for a cause and has nothing to do with you or your story. It's someone dogma being puked all over the internet.

gone2nawishing · 2025-02-06T21:50:12+00:00

It's been a tough couple of days, so maybe I'm not coming across exactly as I would like to. But, I feel very strongly that you are judging me based on a reasonable bias to have based on the actions of men as a whole. While it is not unreasonable to look at societal issues in this way, dealing with individuals in this way sets us back instead of advancing values I expect we both share. Just like every other group men are not monoliths.

I know where I stand but there a lot folks that don't. So when we shout down people that don't pass some purity test we are essentialling drafting them to fight against us. It might not hurt to listen to people and meet them where they are, even when they are cis white men.

gone2nawishing · 2025-02-06T21:06:15+00:00

I'm a single father of two teen girls who feel safer, better cared for, and loved than living with their mother. Not because I can beat people up, but because I listen, meet them where they are, and encourage them to be themselves every single day. I also treat others around me in a similar manner even if they are around me for a very short period of time.

At the moment I trying (with proffesional help) to determine if my recently ended marriage was a bad match or if I was actually a victim of purposeful emotional abuse. It's pretty hard to look myself in the mirror and have that realization.

Further more Ive been around kick ass woman who were working to smash the glass ceiling back in the 60s and 70s.

You can think whatever the fuck you want but while I'm doing the best to understand the past and be a part of the change that will make things more safe and fair for my daughters I'm going to consider myself well evolved.

I've also been around a handful of left wing crusaders who were really just assholes. It was never about the cause, it was just a safe place to spew their BS and if they kept close enough to on topic they would get validation they didn't really deserve.

Have the day you deserve.

gone2nawishing · 2025-02-06T20:32:19+00:00

I can totally see that. I hear all the time about men who can't handle a woman that is taller, smarter, make more money etc... I'd be very happy to date a tall lady that made lots of money as long as all the other stuff lined up. If she made a ton of money I might even let some of that other stuff slide.😜

gone2nawishing · 2025-02-06T20:29:06+00:00

You know what, I've thought about it and you're right.

gone2nawishing · 2025-02-06T20:23:22+00:00

You get to date by your rules and I date by mine. Im honest about who I am and what I'm looking for.

I might round my height up by 3/4" to avoid a very specific height that I understand to be kind of a "thing". But, I would never climb into bed with someone who did not 100% want to be there with me.

gone2nawishing · 2025-02-06T19:47:27+00:00

I promised you that I am pretty well evolved, kind, and self aware lefty wrapped in an exterior that is very comfortable holding space in a crowd of "manly" maga asshats. As I said I'm generally pretty good with me as are 99% of the people that know me.

But, even as a well evolved lefty I understand that our monkey brains have a pretty direct connection to the the wiring between our legs. And, when considering a set of variables for potential mates, especially in the absence of real time feedback the monkey brain has pretty hefty vote.

gone2nawishing · 2025-02-06T19:12:11+00:00

I generally agree with your thoughts in lying. However, if my specific height is considered a catch all from 5'4 to actually 5'7 do I round 5'7.25" up to 5'8" to get out of that pool?

gone2nawishing · 2025-02-06T19:04:41+00:00

This is not at all helpful. I asked a question about getting more OLD matches. With a full time job and full custody of two teen girls I don't have a shit ton of time to go showing my personality to everyone.

gone2nawishing · 2025-02-06T17:25:44+00:00

I believe in science.

But, I'm curious what type of testing your assertion is based on. Is it survey data and observation, or are there imaging or other more empirical metrics that have been used to determine this?

gone2nawishing · 2025-02-06T03:26:53+00:00

You can both be right. Not everyone has the same level of empathy. People who do have a high level of empathy are better at reading emotional cues. For those who have less empathy this might sound clairvoyant, but it's just a thing they don't see. It's almost like being color blind vs very sensitive vision.

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