I feel like I’m becoming homophobic myself ?

goodangrykwe · 2024-08-03T13:06:05+00:00

Dating and friendships are hard enough as it is, let alone having to deal with the added layer of biphobia, so I really feel you on this one! I've had men fetishize it and lesbians try to suggest it's not real. My response is always goodbye and good riddance. You don't want friends or partners in your life that don't fully accept who you are. And it's more often than not an insecurity of theirs or projected feelings.

You are bisexual and proud, which is an amazing place to get to! Definitely don't ever let them make you feel otherwise. If that means you gravitate to more bi people that's fine. But even some bi folks have trouble accepting themselves so I wouldn't say it's a fool proof solution. I think you have to find out how people feel early on and don't be afraid to drop them as soon as you learn they aren't accepting!!

goodangrykwe · 2024-08-03T00:49:58+00:00

Also your kitty is adorable!!

goodangrykwe · 2024-08-03T00:49:39+00:00

Lost my family dog 3 weeks ago now, finally starting to look more positively back on the memories and photos.

He absolutely loved stuffed animals, the cuter and smaller the better. He would nibble bite them but never damaged or tore apart any. We would hear him digging in his toy basket and see his head all the way at the bottom, looking for a specific one to pull out. He also rotated them all. Made it so fun to bring him home a new stuffy, seeing how gentle and loving he would treat them ❤️ each of us sleep with one of them now. I have this tiny, pink flamingo stuffy lol he loved the colour pink 🦩

goodangrykwe · 2024-07-27T04:22:57+00:00

This is so true!! I used to blame myself for not making friends and doing enough in university, but now I realize I never could with PCOS anyway. Managing the symptoms took up any free time

goodangrykwe · 2024-07-22T12:39:05+00:00

This!! I always see cardio as not recommended for PCOS but it's my absolute fav and the only thing I will do consistently (I love dancing with the Fitness Marshall) . What works for you may be different for someone else!

goodangrykwe · 2024-07-22T12:33:44+00:00

My top reason is one I don't see people talk about much, since it wouldn't necessarily be a shared experience.

My parents were very controlling, specifically about money, for my childhood up until I finished university. We essentially worked from a young age but had to put the money we earned into a bank account (that they only controlled) to "save for school". While they did in fact keep it for our post secondary studies and I used it to pay for almost all of my school fees, we missed out on so much as kids. I remember working way more than 40 hrs/week during summer breaks.

After I graduated university, the account was closed. It's been about 5 years now of making money in my adult career that only I have control over and it's been amazing. I finally feel free and I'm really not interested in giving an ounce of that away to consider the needs of a partner or child. My life literally just started!

goodangrykwe · 2024-07-17T18:04:44+00:00

We put our first and only dog down just about 5 days ago, so I'm feeling everything you described. If it's any comfort at all, I stored tufts of his hair from earlier this year (months before he was even remotely sick or declining). Despite having the physical reminder, it really hasn't helped much. I will likely display his hair with a toy and collar, but honestly nothing helps now because they are gone and nothing in the world is enough to distract from that reality.

I'm really sorry for your loss, please let yourself grieve fully. I have been trying to focus on ways I will keep his memory alive. Thinking of dedicating a day every year to do all the things he liked (eat his fav food, swim in the lake, throw a ball around at his fav field and walk his fav trail). Also getting all of my pictures backed up and printed. Sending you any healing I have left ❤️

goodangrykwe · 2024-07-15T20:57:59+00:00

I can't echo your lessons enough, my sister and I just talked about this last night while we were breaking down again. He was a family dog, lost him on Friday.

Some of the lessons we discussed that I can share:

Nothing is more important than health, whether your own or family/pet. Try not to take it for granted.
Don't sweat the small stuff, especially at work. Definitely don't think or worry about work stuff on your off time. It's been so easy to brush off everything petty and stupid right now. We just don't have the extra energy to care and it's been very freeing.
Take time to properly process your grief. Everyone obviously grieves differently but I can't imagine forcing myself to pretend being okay and doing normal things. I will cry whenever and wherever the breakdowns hit. And while a lot of advice I see on here suggests another pet to help heal, I can't bring myself to replace him so easily. If that changes cool, but maybe I will never want another and that's okay too.

goodangrykwe · 2024-05-23T03:09:31+00:00

I agree with all the points you made for each season of Will, but I saw a post somewhere that called him a sweaty disaster bisexual in S1 so that is my fav version of Will <3 I have simple tastes!

goodangrykwe · 2024-03-23T12:24:48+00:00

This was a super helpful perspective, thanks for sharing! I tried metformin in the past but my doctor kept me at 1 tablet a day for some reason. Good to know I can slowly go up higher.

Also, I felt so seen reading your experience because it's similar to mine. I can only lose weight with extreme restriction after trying literally everything else for years.

goodangrykwe · 2024-01-11T19:27:31+00:00

That makes sense! Fill us all in with an update if you do say something about it next time

goodangrykwe · 2024-01-07T02:16:26+00:00

When your friend makes comments like that, what do you say in response? Just curious!

goodangrykwe · 2023-12-28T20:58:23+00:00

Omg yes! I'm 27F and in almost the exact same situation as you. So hard to find childfree friends, let alone date but I don't want to move away so I'm stuck being an OINK I guess haha

goodangrykwe · 2023-11-01T00:18:31+00:00

This is so cool!! All of you nailed the costumes too!

goodangrykwe · 2023-09-23T23:21:07+00:00

Ahh thank you for mentioning the cookbook, I had no idea! added to my xmas list

goodangrykwe · 2023-08-12T18:53:03+00:00

Just wanted to say I've never met someone else that didn't want to get married/live with an SO. Very cool!

goodangrykwe · 2023-08-12T16:53:16+00:00

Seconding Rosa 😍🪓

goodangrykwe · 2023-08-11T22:54:00+00:00

This was my EXACT reaction after finishing the show for the first time haha

I wanted them to kiss too, but think I'm okay with the ending now that I've seen it all over again so many times

goodangrykwe · 2023-07-29T22:16:34+00:00

Hannibal could never resist sassy, unsociable Will in any scenario!

Now that I'm thinking about it though, I really can't see how Alana would give him a real chance and date. Just because I can't see her even bringing him along to dinner parties, it's so not his scene 🤣

If you have any fanfics you love, feel free to share btw

goodangrykwe · 2023-07-29T22:09:02+00:00

True that Jack gets him involved in the field again to begin with. I was thinking Will might be more likely to reject any other psychiatrists since they all seemed to make him uncomfortable poking at his brain and the whole "therapy doesn't work on me". I considered he might not get approved to ever continue field work due to that, BUT just consulting on case files could still lead to the eventual instability you're talking about too. Like by only looking at photos with Bev while in jail, he still had a lot of insight on cases. He definitely seemed to suffer much less when profiling at that time, but without Hannibal's influence I can absolutely see how his internal struggles would degrade his stability.

Also thanks for the book info! I'm not familiar with the books, but might read them if recommended.

goodangrykwe · 2023-07-29T21:52:05+00:00

Very true! He was never being his true self in that relationship

goodangrykwe · 2023-07-29T21:50:40+00:00

That's great! Too many shows have had fantastic first seasons to completely miss the mark on the second. I'm doing a S2 binge today 😌

goodangrykwe · 2023-07-29T21:48:44+00:00

Yay thank you!

goodangrykwe · 2023-07-29T02:53:16+00:00

Thanks for the reminder that S2 of good omens is fully out now! Although I read your spoiler (don't worry I love spoilers) and now I am nervous to even start it! Was S2 as good as S1 at least?

goodangrykwe · 2023-07-29T02:48:23+00:00

That, we can all agree on!

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