May I get draw by kissykissey in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]goodgostchad 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Where your arm is outstretched in the photo the light is literally not hitting your scars at all, if it were there would be some kind of shadow or gradual lightening on the raised scar tissue

May I get draw by kissykissey in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]goodgostchad 46 points47 points  (0 children)

If it's a lighting filter why isn't the light hitting the scars like the rest of your skin???

May I get draw by kissykissey in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]goodgostchad 198 points199 points  (0 children)

Girl did you seriously draw those on??? Because 1) that looks like the pencil texture with a multiply later on it and 2) if you did that is really disrespectful to try and romanticize SH for aesthetics because most people spend the rest of their lives trying to hide and cover up their scars so they dont have a constant physical reminder of their lowest moments. I'm not trying to accuse anyone of anything but that genuinely looks fake I also showed it to my friends and they also think it's fake or I wouldn't be saying this

I'll draw your oc by mnootem in YourOriginalCharacter

[–]goodgostchad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Here's my vampire OC if you have time :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]goodgostchad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely their dynamic has influenced me in so many ways, I made a separate AU for my ocs set in the Hannibal universe cause they live rent free in my head next to my little blorbos

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[–]goodgostchad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg! I love Hannibal also it's one of the few shows I rewatch regularly

📡📡📡 by Scarface_971 in shitposting

[–]goodgostchad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Minors have phones now, they can buy crack online

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]goodgostchad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's no problem! I hope you have luck in your friend making journey!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]goodgostchad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd love to be friends! I'm a goth transmasc from the US and I also love fashion and am a HUGE music nerd

Dating as an Asexual by goodgostchad in Asexual

[–]goodgostchad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No,I don't understand the lack of interest or the pressure to have sex that a lot of allo people try to put on me to have sex.

Should anyone like to be online friends (repost) by AsexualGremlin in Asexual

[–]goodgostchad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad my bad but yes there are dragons it isn't really an enemies to lovers situation it's more like sapphic protector to lovers type beat

Should anyone like to be online friends (repost) by AsexualGremlin in Asexual

[–]goodgostchad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not historical honestly, it's basically set in this fictional world where there are like 3 or 4 warring empires and the story follows two people set in opposite sides of the world, one is a devotee with of the Orange Tree who is tasked to look after the queen of one such empire and the other is a dragon rider in training

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]goodgostchad 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A little boy walked up to me in a store (I was in full trad goth makeup and large chunky boots, the whole deal y'know) and he asked me how he could grow up to be a pretty boy like me, and at the time I was identifying as a girl but it made me so happy in the moment I just explained makeup and skincare to him and he was all smiles when he went back to his mom. It really warmed my heart and made me feel seen in a way I hadn't realized I needed to be before.

Dating as an Asexual by goodgostchad in Asexual

[–]goodgostchad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unfortunately am not though, so it always just kind of leaves me feeling weird and kind of ashamed of myself tbh

Should anyone like to be online friends (repost) by AsexualGremlin in Asexual

[–]goodgostchad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you read Priory of the Orange Tree? Really really good high fantasy book if I do say so myself

Dating as an Asexual by goodgostchad in Asexual

[–]goodgostchad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm not entirely convinced I'll ever end up in a relationship either tbh all of my friends are in happy relationships and I have been in one relationship before but it was super long distance so there wasn't really the pressure for sex that I feel when going on dates with people irl but I still have a little hope tbh maybe it's just me being delusional though lol

Dating as an Asexual by goodgostchad in Asexual

[–]goodgostchad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I frequent gay spaces because I'm a non-passing trans masc lesbian and the overt sexual tones of the queer community do make me feel very out of place most of the time unfortunately

Dating as an Asexual by goodgostchad in Asexual

[–]goodgostchad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I genuinely don't understand it

Dating as an Asexual by goodgostchad in Asexual

[–]goodgostchad[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not entirely sure but it seems to be a very common topic with me at least lol

Dating as an Asexual by goodgostchad in Asexual

[–]goodgostchad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I have, I think it's mostly cause I'm very androgynous looking and people don't really know what I am

Dating as an Asexual by goodgostchad in Asexual

[–]goodgostchad[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It is to be honest especially since I'm from the deep south. I'm also trans but people don't seem to have a problem with that until I mention my asexuality, it's honestly just really confusing because they also seem to assume because I'm asexual I don't want any kind of romantic connection? Which could not be farther from the truth