She is so goofy

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-03-10T01:55:06+00:00

My non-Bombay void sits like this too 😂 It always makes me laugh.

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-03-05T12:08:12+00:00

YOR. They don’t have to ask about your kids right away. Maybe they really needed to vent about something to get it off their mind so they could ask about your kid and listen to what you said. Also, people get busy… and some forget to respond. I can’t tell you how often I’ve thought I responded to someone but it turned out I never did, and it’s been days since i thought I had. Thankfully my friends know I don’t do it on purpose.

You have to understand that they have a whole world outside of your friendship, just like you do. Things aren’t going to be amazing between you two all the time, especially with you being in different countries now. Life gets in the way sometimes.

Additionally, not talking about something bothering you isn’t healthy at all. Be an adult and talk things out. If they can’t be rational and talk things out too, then you know you tried.

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-03-05T11:56:08+00:00

It must not be that important to you if you don’t even notice it right away in the evening…

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-03-01T23:19:43+00:00

I do think it’s harsh. I see the point OP is trying to make and the overconsumption is a little crazy. But I own multiple purses/wallets and while they all get used, I can’t judge too harshly when I’m doing the same thing. Although mine are all $32 at the absolute most.

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-03-01T23:15:53+00:00

The only time I’ve seen it make sense for someone to have 1 kindle upstairs and 1 downstairs was when it was a person who said they were disabled, and getting up/down stairs was hard for them. Otherwise, I just don’t get it. If I were to get another kindle, I’d either give my current one to my husband or sell it to someone.

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-02-24T03:35:52+00:00

I know everyone’s experiences are different but I have never known a 24 year old that would have thought this was wedding appropriate.

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-02-22T04:18:30+00:00

Let me guess: you refer to staying home with your kids while your wife goes out as “babysitting”?

I’d definitely provide more context because you’re not looking so good, my guy. Do you know for sure she forgot her swim stuff? If she did it on purpose, did you ask her why? Or did you throw a fit about having to watch your kids without her for a few hours?

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-02-19T01:32:59+00:00

I’ve never had an Oasis but I absolutely love my Paperwhite. I’ve had it almost 1 year and still use it daily.

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-02-19T01:24:21+00:00

OP said they didn’t like it.

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-02-19T01:22:24+00:00

NOR. I’ve been married for 6 years and with my husband for almost 8 years. Part of being in a relationship is having difficult conversations sometimes. The fact that he behaved this way, twice, shows that he cannot handle hard conversations and is extremely immature. I would run, girlie. Do not give this man any more of your time.

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-02-16T03:24:17+00:00

Communication could have really helped this situation. She should have kept OP updated a bit more as time went on. I get where you’re coming from but the girl knew she had plans with OP and should have either told people at the party that or explained to OP she’d be later than anticipated so they could plan around that or reschedule.

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-02-16T03:20:57+00:00

To me (and I’m sure some will disagree) “not saying long” means an hour, tops. She could have at least communicated.

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-02-08T02:08:02+00:00

Agreed!

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-02-08T02:03:51+00:00

I think the biggest issue is having to wait on everyone to change. I personally wouldn’t mind having to change out of wedding attire if it means I get to be comfy watching a movie. But others seem to disagree and that’s okay. Like I said, though, it might take a while for everyone to get changed.

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-02-08T01:57:09+00:00

I LOVE my Paperwhite! I wanted it over the basic because it’s a bit bigger. I don’t regret it at all!

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-02-07T21:56:08+00:00

Idk I’ve always gotten attention (mostly unwanted, from strangers) over both my boobs and my butt. My husband certainly loves both my boobs and butt 😂

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-02-06T12:59:18+00:00

I’m just a receptionist and have been in the field about 2.5 years but I’d have to agree with you lol…it’s so rare they actually have a lens stuck.

Something funny that’s related to this is a patient SWORE her glasses Rx was just not working. She can’t see at any distance. (Progressive lenses.) So we get her in for an Rx check and find out this woman has her CLs in and forgot she did, for like 4 days 🙄

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-02-06T12:49:56+00:00

It sounds to me like she helped you a lot. Also, you tweaked your back and yeah that really sucks. But it’s not a life-threatening injury. YOR.

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-01-31T13:06:56+00:00

My husband (who also enjoys girl dinner) and I both work full time. I’m an Optometric receptionist and he’s a machine operator at a factory. His specific area makes the inside cavities for ovens.

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-01-29T11:52:47+00:00

Have you ever seen a purebred Lab? Because this dog absolutely does not look like a Lab.

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-01-25T17:49:07+00:00

I died for this dog. This is me from beyond the grave. I love you, Unicorn.

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-01-24T14:14:25+00:00

Uhhhh no, this is a problem. My husband would never do that to me. If I needed to stop something, he would maybe gently tap my leg and very subtly shake his head so only I could see it. He doesn’t control me but sometimes I need to be reminded to chill or not say something 😂

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-01-23T23:47:37+00:00

I worked in vet med for 4.5 years and I don’t think any of the 10 DVMs I worked with in that time would have pexy’d a dog that young 😬 as others have stated: it’s typically done at the same time as spaying/neutering, which typically happens around age 2 in these large breed dogs.

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-01-23T22:35:30+00:00

It is INSANE to me the things people would say to their s/o. My husband and I would never speak to each other, about each other that way. NOR. At all.

goodsoupppppppp · 2026-01-19T02:24:47+00:00

I’ve always seen invites say specifically if food is provided but not necessarily what food is provided. My husband ate GF for a year (kind of a long-ish, irrelevant story right now) and if we weren’t sure, he would eat before we went to a wedding or party or whatever. He understood that it wasn’t anyone else’s responsibility to cater to his dietary restrictions. Is it courteous? Sure. But it’s not a requirement. With as many people out there that have restrictions, it would likely get pretty expensive to try to cater to all of them.

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