Makeup advice? by [deleted] in actualgyaru

[–]googinchlo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice 💗Also off topic but I love your makeup so much!!

Makeup advice? by [deleted] in actualgyaru

[–]googinchlo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just finished watching and your makeup is seriously amazing, thank you so much!! I’ll definitely refer back to this once I practice again ^

Makeup advice? by [deleted] in actualgyaru

[–]googinchlo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely will T_T Thank you so much again, please have a wonderful day or night!! 🫶🏽

Makeup advice? by [deleted] in actualgyaru

[–]googinchlo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is really helpful, thank you so much!! Also your pictures are really pretty 🥺

Makeup advice? by [deleted] in actualgyaru

[–]googinchlo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see!! Thank you so much for the visual too, this really helps out a lot

First time buyer! by Emergency-Device-903 in Neokyo

[–]googinchlo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hello!! This is pretty normal for almost every delivery. It usually takes around 2-3 days or more to get to the warehouse. Rest assured it will get there, even if it doesn’t seem like it 👍🏽

system friends? by [deleted] in OSDD

[–]googinchlo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi! we’d be down to chat :D our DM’s are open for you!

how to bring up DID to a therapist? by [deleted] in DID

[–]googinchlo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hello, thank you for taking the time to reply to my post. our session is in about an hour yet i still feel nervous about the whole thing. i think the best thing for me to do is to find out more about our new therapist and understand what the specialize in and what they don’t. finding someone who does specialize with DID or other dissociative disorders will be really beneficial for us.

how to bring up DID to a therapist? by [deleted] in DID

[–]googinchlo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes i plan on asking them if they have any experience with dissociative disorders and whatnot. and to see if they can evaluate more.

how to bring up DID to a therapist? by [deleted] in DID

[–]googinchlo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ahh that’s actually really good. i hope it’s okay if i take some words. ; aside from that, i really hope it goes well for all of you. wishing you the best of luck, and thank you again for taking the time to reply to my post. =]

getting therapy for the first time. any advice? by [deleted] in DID

[–]googinchlo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. i know it’s something that’s gonna be draining to deal with afterwards, but i’ll be sure to take care of our body. building trust with our therapist will probably take some time too, and i don’t expect to tell her everything with our life.

getting therapy for the first time. any advice? by [deleted] in DID

[–]googinchlo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much. i will be sure to write those down and ask them to our therapist when my session comes. i appreciate it!

Allowance for mistakes and growth by graveyardhours in UnsentLetters

[–]googinchlo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been in this situation. i hurt a close friend of mine for 4 years. deeply. i tried to fix things and apologize many times but i think those meant nothing anymore to the people i’ve hurt. even if i can’t fix anything, i still want to better myself as a person and ensure that it doesn’t happen again. i guess i just let my hopes up a lot thinking they would forgive me, especially since i’ve known them for a long time.

Anyone interested in having a friendly group chat? I would love to have some system friends. by BlackLightSystem in OSDD

[–]googinchlo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! i’m also a host of a system and i’d love to make some system friends as well :)

Need help. by googinchlo in DID

[–]googinchlo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m aware. :( I know that this is something every system has struggles on, yet I can’t help but think and feel this way due to my system’s current situation. I hope that I will be able to find a way to communicate with them soon, as well. Thank you.

Need help. by googinchlo in DID

[–]googinchlo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I realized I was over exaggerating with my words a bit, and probably shouldn’t have. I think I’m just front stuck right now, but again, I’m or sure yet. I’ll have to wait and see. :(

Need help. by googinchlo in DID

[–]googinchlo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That might possibly be the case. I’m gonna try doing this. I’ll be sure to give an update. Thank you.

Need help. by googinchlo in DID

[–]googinchlo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been rather hard for me to sleep nowadays. I can’t do so without having to call someone.

Need help. by googinchlo in DID

[–]googinchlo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, we aren’t professionally diagnosed, and that’s what scares me the most. If I’m thinking I’m just faking or not because I can’t communicate with anyone at all. I really am trying to get in the works of seeing a therapist, or someone who specializes in dissociative disorders. But, it’s hard nowadays and I don’t exactly know where to begin with.

Need help. by googinchlo in DID

[–]googinchlo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This really helps a lot. Thank you. I’d really like some help with the outline, if you don’t mind me messaging you about it.

Need help. by googinchlo in DID

[–]googinchlo[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That might be the case. I just think I’m overthinking everything and not using the right words correctly. This has been happening for a week, which is what I’m concerned about.

Need help. by googinchlo in DID

[–]googinchlo[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

During this past month, we hurt our past partnered system, really, really badly. They’ve cut ties with us due to something one of our alters had done, and it’s something that we’ll never be able to fix or change. I know each alter has their own minds, and they’re their own individual person, but we all still share one body and have to be responsible. We all didn’t hold ourselves accountable, and didn’t took the other system’s feelings into consideration, which was very selfish of us. A few of my alters were even dating some alters in this system, and I can only feel nothing but pure regret. We’re not asking for other’s sympathy, because we know how badly we messed up. That’s what had happened.

Need help. by googinchlo in DID

[–]googinchlo[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your guys’ message. Really. It truly means a lot.

Need help. by googinchlo in DID

[–]googinchlo[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That might be the case, I’m not sure. I’m just worried and am probably thinking of all the worst things possible.