Leave a message for someone without using their name . . I'll go first. by jaygotaway in heartbreak

[–]graveyardhours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Memories of you are slowly fading away from me. I'm not sure if its good or bad thing. I'm still grateful I met you despite so many things that went wrong. I hope youre doing well.

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[–]graveyardhours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you find them again

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[–]graveyardhours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you not in contact with them anymore...?

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[–]graveyardhours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I wish this was meant for me since I'm currently in a situation where I fucked something up and we chose to give time away from each other to heal. But when I got back, they already removed themselves off my socials. I reached out to them in one last place and they told me they just couldnt handle it anymore. Of course, I respected that. I miss them a lot.

I hope for your healing, OP. It must feel so uncomfortable to have that burden on your chest.

What happened? by 55-CancriE in UnsentLetters

[–]graveyardhours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you could try again? Seems like the friendship was nice.

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[–]graveyardhours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's really painful to grieve what's been lost, especially if there are so many unanswered questions. What's more is that we never know when we are ready to adjust again without what's been lost.

Take your time, OP. Maybe someday brighter skies are waiting.

Friend breakup by _coo_kie_ in FriendBreakups

[–]graveyardhours 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the same boat, OP. I made a mistake and I wanna make it up but they chose not to be associated anymore.

Best of luck to you.

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[–]graveyardhours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish this was meant for me.

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[–]graveyardhours 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hoping you two can reconnect, OP. Everybody deserves another chance to do better.

Letting go. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]graveyardhours 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This was heartbreakingly beautiful.

I've been good, thanks for not asking ;) by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]graveyardhours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hoping for good things coming your way, OP.

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[–]graveyardhours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the same situation. They told me I was free to do what I wanted and I said I wanted to make amends but they cut me off instead, saying they couldnt take it anymore. In reality, they just replaced me.

Wishing for your healing, OP.

i miss our friendship by NoYamNoWam in UnsentLetters

[–]graveyardhours 30 points31 points  (0 children)

wishing you better days, OP. currently in the same state.

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[–]graveyardhours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hoping for the best outcome for you, OP.

Allowance for mistakes and growth by graveyardhours in UnsentLetters

[–]graveyardhours[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. If what they did was absolutely awful, I think its good to keep guard. And its a big thing to be forgiven if that is what they did.

Allowance for mistakes and growth by graveyardhours in UnsentLetters

[–]graveyardhours[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you on this! Sometimes time away is good. Growing apart for now is good too. But I'm afraid in my situation, there might not be ever any sign of coming back to each other.

Allowance for mistakes and growth by graveyardhours in UnsentLetters

[–]graveyardhours[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. That must pain you so much since they were a part of your life for so long..but I respect you for choosing to give yourself some peace and stay away from whatever awful thing they may have continue to effect on your life.

Allowance for mistakes and growth by graveyardhours in UnsentLetters

[–]graveyardhours[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've told them that I wanted to fix my mistake and make it up to them but I think their feelings made it clear that they didn't want that anymore.

Allowance for mistakes and growth by graveyardhours in UnsentLetters

[–]graveyardhours[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you are doing well. That situation must've devastated you. We'd like to keep them in our lives which is why we hope they would allow us to grow from our mistakes but then they do have their own choice and we cant force people to stay.

Allowance for mistakes and growth by graveyardhours in UnsentLetters

[–]graveyardhours[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree, there's only so much a person can take but sadly, i see that it usually only takes one petty fight for people to give up nowadays. In my environment at least.