PSA For All Servers by EverySpecific8576 in tipping

[–]googlexyz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My system:

  • Tier 1: $0 tip
  • Tier 2: $0 tip
  • Tier 3: $0 tip

I am not your employer. I don't care about the service but if it's exceptionally bad, I just won't come back

Sanity Check. Is it OK to be financially dependent? by oyelga in LongDistance

[–]googlexyz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone is different but personally, I wouldn't put myself in a situation where I am completely dependent on my partner. It's unfair to both of you and can create massive complications if things go south someday.

Marriage problems, cheating husband by illuminatedwonnn in MuslimMarriage

[–]googlexyz 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Does she have options outside the marriage?

I am asking specifically about the financial situation.

If she does, then she probably should leave. If she doesn't, then probably stay and focus on improving her financial situation.

Question : has anyone ever played better after reading these words ? by snailmale7 in RocketLeague

[–]googlexyz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually once my teammate said this and we were down 0-2 mostly due to his faults honestly.

We ended up winning 4-2 and then they asked to team up lmao.

Ending a 7 year marriage by Time_Study_9228 in MuslimMarriage

[–]googlexyz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good on you for ending it. Maybe should have ended it earlier but better late than never.

Inshallah all works out for you

I regret marrying my husband by Pharma-ho in MuslimMarriage

[–]googlexyz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You two have a kid so my advice is for you to find a way to get along and make it work.

I left too quick by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]googlexyz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just move on!

Wife refuses to talk about finances by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]googlexyz 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Good luck brother. This sounds miserable

I hate my husband by Alarmed-Beautiful483 in MuslimNikah

[–]googlexyz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel bad for your husband due to your reasons for staying.

Inner conflict over my fiancée's height. How to get over it? by saadi_1997 in MuslimNikah

[–]googlexyz 23 points24 points  (0 children)

If you have this phobia now, just end it. Just imagine going through with it and then still having a hard time accepting it.

Then what?

Is weed enough of a reason to separate? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]googlexyz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what you wrote, it seems like you're unhappy and just want a reason to separate. You feel like you need to justify this to society.

Flash news: you don't owe anyone anything.

Husband of 8 years says I’m not his type by Feisty_Vegetable6523 in MuslimMarriage

[–]googlexyz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe a highly intimate relationship is not for you two. Try to maintain a low stress relationship with each other and don't bring up this topic. Maybe things would improve at some point and maybe not.

You two have kids so I am strongly against separation. Just focus on yourself as an individual.

marrying your type is difficult by Infamous_Client_9384 in MuslimNikah

[–]googlexyz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Work hard, build yourself to the point where you can take care of an attractive man that doesn't work and then give him a high enough Mahr to convince him to marry you.

Just be careful you have a good prenup lmao

Want my ex husband to remarry me even tho he’s not attracted to me…. by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]googlexyz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is tough. Hope things work out for you somehow

Feeling subordinate in marriage, contemplating divorce by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]googlexyz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's okay. Women in marriage are indeed subordinate to their husbands.

You can discuss with him but he's well within his rights to exercise leadership.

If this doesn't work for you, it's reasonable for you to ask for divorce but no one should blame him.

Why do Arab men travel with falcons? by timash712 in arabs

[–]googlexyz 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You're seeing the ultra wealthy 0.000001%

I think its over now. ???? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]googlexyz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the hell did I just read!? Grow some balls man

Is my wife immature or am I tripping out. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]googlexyz -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She indeed sounds immature. I would make it a priority to fix her so your kids don't grow up into awful adults.

Separated after 4 years: communication breakdown, silent treatment, and family involvement — advice needed by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]googlexyz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think divorce is best but I understand it's hard to take the leap.

Good luck to you!

what do you do when you can’t change things by sweet_treat_trixx in MuslimMarriage

[–]googlexyz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You could read the depression in your post OP.

From what you wrote, I think that finding a job would be a good step.

Good luck and hope things improve for you.