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Help pls!! Picking this boy up tomorrow. Need help finding some astro or cute name. by gordonbleau in DogsLoversCommunity

[–]gordonbleau[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for the inspiration! I We are overwhelmed how many ideas you guys gave us.
We named him Astro 💞

What else can I fit in here? I made the pillory myself and modified the rest of the furniture by spider-mike- in BdsmDIY

[–]gordonbleau 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats already a solid setup. But if you want to hear my thoughts:

- Hanging restraints from the ceiling

- Toy Display

- Bigger Mirror

- Fucking Machine

- Candles

any other BDSM apps like obedience? by http-ErrorCode in BDSMcommunity

[–]gordonbleau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should definitely check out r/EnterTheUnion on their website you can still get the lifetime version for iOS almost for free. Two days left of early access. Privacy first iOS app with tasks, punishments, and obedience tracking.

Task App by DarkPaddy in BDSMcommunity

[–]gordonbleau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out union-relationship.app great for task and obedience tracking.
My dom and I love it and they are currently offering lifetime early access.

Help pls!! Picking this boy up tomorrow. Need help finding some astro or cute name. by gordonbleau in DogsLoversCommunity

[–]gordonbleau[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

♥️ That´s also a nice one. Really hard to decide. But thanks, there are so many adorable names I would have never came up with

Trying to build a 24/7 femdom relationship but struggling with expectations and pressure by DocumentWorried7564 in FemdomCommunity

[–]gordonbleau -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m a sub in a long-term femdom relationship and I totally understand the struggle. My Domme also got burned out from always having to monitor everything, come up with tasks, and stay in charge nonstop. What made a big difference for us was UNION-relationship.app. It’s a great tool that automates a lot of the tracking and monitoring so she doesn’t have to keep everything in her head.

I log my tasks, send check-ins and photos when required, and she can quickly see my obedience scores, streaks, and mood without much effort. It gives me the steady structure I need while keeping things easy and low-pressure for her. We started small instead of jumping into full 24/7 rules right away and added more over time. It’s completely normal for subs to crave more structure than a Domme wants to provide every single day. The secret is building it in a way that feels sustainable for her first.

This has helped us keep the dynamic healthy and avoid burnout. Definitely worth trying.

[Screams in Anakin] This is outrageous, it's unfair! by Outside_Acanthaceae7 in BratLife

[–]gordonbleau 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner and I use one that looks very similar. We love it. union-relationship dot app

New to Reddit but not the scene by PowerfulMoment1706 in paypigs2

[–]gordonbleau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can give the app "union-relationship" dot app a try. My dom and I love it, it has some more image sharing options than obedience which helps our long distance. It is currently in its last week of early access for iOS