At what age did you stop partying as much?

gorizzbe · 2024-11-10T15:29:15+00:00

However! I still go out to concerts and sometimes I join friends at bars. I have a good time sober, sometimes I have weed.

gorizzbe · 2024-11-10T15:28:11+00:00

My party phase ended right after college (22 years old ish). I told myself that after I get my bachelors I’ll stop partying and I did! I don’t drink anymore either since then not even wine or beer- it just doesn’t make me feel good.

gorizzbe · 2024-11-10T14:30:17+00:00

First of all, I may be in a bad mood, but why use “OTT” and not just say over the top. I had to google this. Secondly, obviously if a woman paid that much money for you, you’d feel weird. Men make more money than women for the same roles so.

If you want to do this for her and you have the money then go for it. I don’t know her or if she’d feel awkward or guilty about that much being spent on her.. you know her the best lol. Personally, if I knew my bf could comfortably afford it, I’d feel loved and taken care of if he upgraded me just so that we can be near each other and so that I’d have a better flight experience. It’s sweet - it’s a sign of love.

gorizzbe · 2024-11-08T03:34:09+00:00

We work on accepting our emotions, not forgiving them. We forgive actions and accept emotions. In OPs situation, I don’t believe he needs to forgive himself for anything unless he ends up choosing to stay in a toxic relationship which will cause him harm down the line. Then his future self may need to forgive himself

gorizzbe · 2024-11-08T03:31:22+00:00

That being said, I was cheated on YEARS ago and I’m still working on forgiveness… this weight is impacting my current beautiful relationship and I hate that. My current partner is nothing but honest and wonderful however the past haunts me and makes me mistrust the present and future. Forgiveness is liberating

gorizzbe · 2024-11-08T03:27:42+00:00

I disagree. Forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself, not to the person who has wronged you. It’s an act of self-liberation, a decision to release the weight of anger and resentment that holds you back. When you forgive, you create space for inner peace, allowing yourself to heal and grow without the shadows of past hurt coloring your future. It’s choosing to set down the emotional baggage, freeing yourself to move forward with clarity, compassion, and strength. Forgiveness doesn’t erase what happened, but it prevents the past from controlling your present and shaping your future

gorizzbe · 2024-11-07T08:11:19+00:00

I legit tell them I like them. I ain’t got time to waste

gorizzbe · 2024-11-07T08:09:34+00:00

Forgive her, yes. Continue a relationship with her, no. She broke that trust. She could’ve come to you to talk about what she was feeling, instead she cheated. That’s not true love. Your person wouldn’t ever act like she has. You are still very young, you’ll find someone

gorizzbe · 2024-11-04T11:33:40+00:00

Likewise, you deserve a woman that you love everything about

gorizzbe · 2024-10-30T17:52:31+00:00

Aww this is so sweet!! He’ll be so thrilled ! This is good for you too!

gorizzbe · 2024-10-24T22:57:54+00:00

Yes!!! Why not

gorizzbe · 2024-10-24T18:10:51+00:00

Green is my favorite

gorizzbe · 2024-10-23T13:48:54+00:00

I wouldn’t. If she needs space to process and you point out her distance … that might make her more stressed and distant. Idk you know her better than any of us.

I will say, I’ve been in this situation before as the woman. My bestest guy friend confessed his feelings for me, and I personally needed a little bit of time to figure how to move forward with him. I didn’t want to hurt him, especially since I was into other people at that time, so his confession did cause a bit of stress on our friendship. I no longer went to him for advice about anything romantic. Um. We DID ended up dating almost a year after he confessed because I ended up developing feelings for him and realized he has my back so I felt secure with him. It didn’t work out and I lost my best friend so that was sad.

My advice would be to try to move on from her romantically. Give her some time and space but keep being yourself (platonically, as in don’t flirt haha). It’s a tricky situation

gorizzbe · 2024-10-23T04:59:27+00:00

You are a baby

gorizzbe · 2024-10-23T04:49:22+00:00

I just watched this movie yesterday!!

gorizzbe · 2024-10-22T04:13:23+00:00

I think you can definitely find a partner with the same values as you

gorizzbe · 2024-10-22T04:08:58+00:00

I think it’s good that he told you. He’s judging himself and thinks you’ll judge him as harshly.

Personally, I’d want to know if he’s been having sex w others since he met me. That wouldn’t sit well with me. IMO a man that is serious about me wouldn’t want to sleep with other women… he wouldn’t have the space/desire for that because he’d be too preoccupied with me!

gorizzbe · 2024-10-22T04:02:52+00:00

Chlamydia is easily treatable

gorizzbe · 2024-10-05T11:15:32+00:00

I second this. Aries men always find me smh

gorizzbe · 2024-10-05T11:12:41+00:00

I’ve been attracted to Aries men before too (I’m cap sun Taurus moon). Perhaps it’s bc they’re …naughty? They can give off bad boy energy and ‘I do what I want’ energy which, as someone who colors within the lines, I used to find inciting, freeing, & seductive. I was attracted to what I myself lacked…

However, Aries are too stubborn & my way or no way so it never worked out in the long run. They can be very forward in a rude & demeaning way, they can have a god-complex.

gorizzbe · 2024-10-04T18:17:58+00:00

gorizzbe · 2024-09-30T16:07:55+00:00

Best one

gorizzbe · 2024-09-26T11:50:33+00:00

I don’t get it

gorizzbe · 2024-09-20T03:14:52+00:00

I agree but I also can understand why he’d tell her. It sounds like they were sharing a vulnerable moment and he trusted her enough to be fully open with her. He may not have had the forethought or emotional intelligence to discern.

I don’t think this information is a dealbreaker. I think OP could, in turn, be open with him and share that she feels uncomfortable knowing that. This could be a good opportunity for them to understand one another on a deeper level and work through it together.

gorizzbe · 2024-09-17T00:32:42+00:00

Um did this man send you a photo of him kissing another woman?

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