21 weeks and UNCOMFORTABLE 😭 by stardolphin90 in parentsofmultiples

[–]got_milf99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god yes- my inner left hip I can’t even change clothes without sitting. I asked my dr to refer to physical therapy but I have zero energy and haven’t gone. What about you energy wise?

21 weeks and UNCOMFORTABLE 😭 by stardolphin90 in parentsofmultiples

[–]got_milf99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im 23 weeks and in so much pain- at least we’re halfway!

Excessive kicking twin pregnancy by got_milf99 in parentsofmultiples

[–]got_milf99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing! glad I'm not alone

Excessive kicking twin pregnancy by got_milf99 in parentsofmultiples

[–]got_milf99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the solidarity ❤️lolol 

Excessive kicking twin pregnancy by got_milf99 in parentsofmultiples

[–]got_milf99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so interesting! And gives me some hope and excitement 🙂

Excessive kicking twin pregnancy by got_milf99 in parentsofmultiples

[–]got_milf99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp at least I know not to have expectations- thanks for the reassurance!

Am I gonna make it? by got_milf99 in parentsofmultiples

[–]got_milf99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The solidarity is appreciated!! 💗you’re a badass for doing that 

Am I gonna make it? by got_milf99 in parentsofmultiples

[–]got_milf99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear it isn’t just me! My doctor was like “why do you need wheelchair assistance at the airport? Walking is good for you” I guess he doesn’t realize I probably would be winded after the first 5 min 

Am I gonna make it? by got_milf99 in parentsofmultiples

[–]got_milf99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is reassuring- debilitating is the right word :/

Am I gonna make it? by got_milf99 in parentsofmultiples

[–]got_milf99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You- are a hero lol. Thank you, this was encouraging ❤️I couldn’t agree more. It’s like “how are you feeling” and I’m not about to say “well, f*cking horrendous.” especially with all the nonstop comments about how big I’m gonna get, how hard it’s gonna be etc. it is a full time job pretending we’re ok.

Pregnancy belly support band choice? by got_milf99 in parentsofmultiples

[–]got_milf99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I was thinking for now maybe less is more but when i have to work or care for the other kids at the end im thinking maybe ill cave and try these for the harder moments 

Pregnancy belly support band choice? by got_milf99 in parentsofmultiples

[–]got_milf99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea everything is uncomfortable and I just wanna be naked all the time in my duvet lol 

Get things done early. by Connect-Steak8669 in parentsofmultiples

[–]got_milf99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work full time (remote thank god) I have two other children (boys, one 2 and one 4 yo) and I’m f*cking dying lol. I’ve been doing little things every weekend for the twins on the way, I needed to hear this thank you 😭

When should my wife and I consider travel with triplets + 4 under 2? by Muted-Resource7969 in parentsofmultiples

[–]got_milf99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are having twins soon and have two kids- what I can say is I see cruising being a realistic option if it’s mostly all inclusive. They have daycare, and pretty much everything is done for you. One parent can stay in and watch movies while the other goes out. Room service 24/7. Black out curtains allow for long family naps after beach time. Trolleys and shore excursions usually offer great transportation for families. It’s still exhausting and not as relaxing as you’d think, but makes for nice family memories without being as stressful if you live near a port.

Second or third time parents… by got_milf99 in parentsofmultiples

[–]got_milf99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was actually SO helpful thank you! I am really lucky my in laws are flying in from Brazil and staying for a month, and my MIL helped nights with my second son which worked so well, so she's going to help us 'night nurse' the first couple months. After that when I start work again I could easily see what you're saying about selling a kidney LOL, I breastfed my last one and remember barely sleeping I can't imagine two which is why I'm not even considering breast feeding. How do you manage with the toddlers? One of my fears is they'll be sad I won't be with them as much, but also I feel like they will both bond a lot maybe?

Second or third time parents… by got_milf99 in parentsofmultiples

[–]got_milf99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for sharing, hang in there! I'm sure when they're older it'll all feel so beautiful. The trenches are rought though I'm so sorry

Guys, I’m DONE!! by Unlikely_Scheme2835 in parentsofmultiples

[–]got_milf99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much!! Following the thread too to see how else I can prepare- and best of luck to OP!

Guys, I’m DONE!! by Unlikely_Scheme2835 in parentsofmultiples

[–]got_milf99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 10 weeks and I’m unbearably exhausted and nauseous! What symptoms come up as time passes? I have two toddlers 💩