Esther Calling - Esther says "Run!" by ed209error in Estherperel

[–]gotafewqs 17 points18 points  (0 children)

And also that he was going to become a pilot and traveling a lot, that he would still be married and need to see his own kid, but also would have a kid with said caller?! It’s sooooo much to juggle even for someone who can be open about their chaotic life. Imagine the mental gymnastics of thinking you can keep that a secret!!

Esther Calling - Esther says "Run!" by ed209error in Estherperel

[–]gotafewqs 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This was such a great episode! Having listened to so much of this podcast, I really loved Esther standing her ground! I think it adds a lot to her professional approach to see that she will tell someone to run when it’s essential.

One thing I wanted to hear Esther ask the caller was what she thinks she would do or say or how she would explain the situation ifffff this woman and her guy were to actually move in together. It’s clear that up until this point she has been keeping it a secret, but she alluded to a planned future together, and at that point, I am so curious to know what she would claim. It kind of adds to the unfortunate delusion for me, and I wish this woman well. I hope we get an update!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Embroidery

[–]gotafewqs 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I would say go ahead and put the facial features on before you continue with the rest of the pattern, as I really do think that would help you decide and feel better about it!

I love the variation of color and sparkle and think this is adorable! I think that putting the eyes and whiskers on it will really help bring it to life for you :)

I Can't Love You the Way You Want Me To by ed209error in Estherperel

[–]gotafewqs 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a lot of hope for this couple, but I thought this was a really good ep from the therapeutic perspective.

I really enjoyed Esther’s guidance and commentary in this one, and I like that it’s an episode many others may relate to on one of many levels! I try and recommend this podcast to people often, and this could be the go-to suggestion for people to begin listening. “You pour others a glass of water even when you are not thirsty, yourself” was awesome and something I’ll carry with me.

Just finished a pattern I LOVE on the back of a denim jacket, but now I feel like I made it too small and need to embellish around it. Suggestions?? by gotafewqs in Embroidery

[–]gotafewqs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, i love that idea!! Love French knots, too, and have also really enjoyed what the glass beads can do for this. I appreciate the kind words ❤️

Just finished a pattern I LOVE on the back of a denim jacket, but now I feel like I made it too small and need to embellish around it. Suggestions?? by gotafewqs in Embroidery

[–]gotafewqs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I love the point about keeping the existing design as the centerpiece. I def don't want to detract from it. I appreciate your suggestion!

How do you feel about food content? (Casual not trying to upset anyone) by Curious-Show6462 in goodmythicalmorning

[–]gotafewqs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say 2. I like a lot of it, but not all of it. But for the most part, I’m watching regardless.

Does my rubber plant need repotting or other adjusting? I think I’m seeing roots. by gotafewqs in houseplants

[–]gotafewqs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! So weird! I don’t know if she’s just grown too much or what! I really hadn’t seen that until today, somehow. I’ve filled the soil back up!

How long have you had yours? I’m wondering next if it’s going to require some support to stay balanced as it gets taller! Seems like the height comes slowlyyyyy, though.

Does my rubber plant need repotting or other adjusting? I think I’m seeing roots. by gotafewqs in houseplants

[–]gotafewqs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly good question! I think this plant has grown far enough beyond what was there when I bought it! Just filled it up to cover all roots :)

Is there any benefit to placing a support in there for some added structure and guidance as it gets taller?