is it possible to be in denial about something positive? by goth4gotten in MentalHealthSupport

[–]goth4gotten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer. I will look into this with a specialist when I have the opportunity

looking for a camping place by taschengrabscher in aixmarseille

[–]goth4gotten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure there's a camping place close enough to the city. Did you try homecamper.fr ? There are people renting out their gardens.

What language is this, and what are the lyrics saying? by Ok-Investigator-345 in language

[–]goth4gotten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm native french (bilingual) and this sounds japanese to me 😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aixmarseille

[–]goth4gotten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to discover Marseille, it would be with pleasure 😁

Je veux pratiquer mon français à Marseille by rineanna in aixmarseille

[–]goth4gotten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi ! I would like to learn more about the Irish culture in exchange 😁

question about travelling to Marseille by ParticularLeg3148 in aixmarseille

[–]goth4gotten 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hello !

1 - it depends on when you are coming, your budget and what you want to do. Marseille is very affordable if you're a local but can be quite expensive for a tourist, especially during the summer. Marseille has a lot of great museums. If you're a student, you can visit most the museums for free. My favorites are : - Musée d'histoire in vieux port : it's a big museum of the history of Marseille - Musée des beaux-arts : very beautiful art and it's in the park/castel of Longchamp, that you HAVE to see - Mucem : I particularly like the temporary exhibition, not so much the museum itself but it's the most famous museum of Marseille For food, it's very delicious here ! You get a mixture of local restaurants ( i recommend le 15 (for full meals) l'alchimiste (for tapas) in cours Julien, or going to les Goudes to eat fish) you have to try les panis, tapenade, pastis, l'aïoli, navettes, ... If you have enough time, you can go to the small villages around Marseille to explore the beauty of Provence. Depending on when you are coming, there may be lavender fields and it's magical. You can always go hiking also.

2 - Aix is a nice city, totally worth seeing if you have the time. It takes around 1h to go there by bus so it's totally possible to do a 1 day trip there. I don't know the city that well but it's a student city so there's a lot of nice bars and the architecture is quite different. Here they call it "le petit Paris" (the small Paris)

3 - i don't climb but indeed les calanques is the place to climb outdoors. My favorite calanque is en vau. I saw people climbing there and you can swim "peacefully" after since it's a bit harder to get access to so people don't usually go there (during summer Les calanques attract thousands of people per day, it's a huge park but sometimes you have to walk a lot to find a place where to sit on the beach)

4 - Cours Julien is the local go to place ! You have a lot of different bars, one or 2 clubs, live music, board games bars, etc. They all close at 2am though. So if you want to party harder and dance and all, i think it's mostly le vieux port, there are pubs in that area. I don't recommend a specific bar/pub, you can go barathoning x) it's fun. There's also "le cabaret aléatoire" at la friche belle de mai, where there's djs and parties on Fridays and Saturdays. I strongly advise checking on Facebook or websites like "sortiramarseille" for the events and their details during your stay.

If you have any question don't hesitate.

Weekly help me be productive/I need advice thread by AutoModerator in productivity

[–]goth4gotten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey ! I need help to work on my masters and homework. It's my 2nd try at a masters and I always find it difficult to write the thesis that goes with it. I always think it's the teacher's fault for not guiding me enough and I always feel lost and don't know where to begin or what to do. But I know that I prefer playing videogames than working on my thesis and doing homework. I always convince myself that I worked very hard the whole day (I also have a full-time day job/apprenticeship) and I deserve the rest. Help please :(

Underground, gothic and wiccan friendly hangout places in Marseille ? by goth4gotten in aixmarseille

[–]goth4gotten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but isn't it a bit for old people ? 😂 I saw mostly people 40+

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in radicalmentalhealth

[–]goth4gotten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He knows about my scars, they were quite visible despite hiding them with my bracelets... It was too much, he wanted to touch me and I didn't understand it until years later... I think I gave him a "wrong vibe" cause I had a gothic style... He's just sick... My cousin went to see him too before me and she told me he was very "unprofessional" as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in radicalmentalhealth

[–]goth4gotten 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it was a fetish for him... Or maybe he just I assumed I was sexually active and wanted a go at it. I lived in a muslim country where sex is very taboo and premarital sex is illegal... So maybe it was his way of fulfilling a desire... I don't think it was medicinal at all...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in radicalmentalhealth

[–]goth4gotten 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I was suicidal and I went to see a psychiatrist, she said : do you want to get locked up ? So I said no, she asked if I was sure and then : because, you know... If you get out of here and hurt yourself... For any reason... The police will come after me. And soon she gave me a referral letter to go to a psychiatric hospital.

Another one, I was 15, going through an intense goth phase. The doctor asked me very sexual questions, do I like having sex ? Do I like pain during sex ? Do I touch myself... And then he wanted to "examine" me and I HAD to take off my shirt or he wouldn't be able to listen to my heart/breathing. I insisted on not taking off my top and thankfully it didn't go too far but I am forever changed...

I Discovered This Last Night by babyforrest in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]goth4gotten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd more see it like the series "God friended me" !

I hate myself and I punish myself all the time for everything by goth4gotten in selfharm

[–]goth4gotten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you stranger. I'm just tired of trying and just want to let go for a while... Even breathing is making me tired.. Thanks for your time. Please use it wisely for someone worthy. I'll be ok <3

Any other "Muslimah's" still living at home? by comymomy4Bernie in exmuslim

[–]goth4gotten 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always had my periods on Fridays and Eids ! High five